Is it normal to still want my boyfriend even thought i want to breakup

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ok so ive been with my boyfriend for two years our first problem was i never wanted to leave him(hes my first love its hard)or give him alone time and he calls me smothering and stuff so know thats a little better. but know hes just disrespect toward me i have ADD and he calls me retarded and stupid and he calls bitch and all sorts of names when hes mad. hell tell me i need to take my crazy pills and stuff like that. and i told him im done being talked to like that and that if he cant respect me than ill find another guy that will. he used to be so sweet and ever time we break up i want to immediately get back together. what wrong with me.

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  • laxman209
    9 years ago

    Dump his arse and think about a celebrity crush.

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  • caseys_girl
    14 years ago

    This reminds me of the first guy I dated. I was afraid that if I left him no one else would want me (he convinced me of this). When we broke up and I eventually got my self confidence back, I found out what healthy relationships were like. I also found that being single is better than being with the wrong person. I think you should get out now - it will be hard, but you'll be thankful in the end.

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  • HarshbutTrue
    14 years ago

    tell him u want to be his f*ck buddy

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  • DeamonButtercup
    14 years ago

    Maybe you just don't want to be alone?
    x A x

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  • mtnw
    14 years ago

    time to move on. breakups are hard, even if you are the one who wants it.

    why would you want to be with a person who talks so nasty to you, maybe he's just a habit.

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  • MisguidedApril
    14 years ago

    Rebound. It's normal.

    Once you break up with someone you're letting go of an emotional attatchment. Especially when you've been with them for several years, it hurts like hell.

    This guy sounds like a twit, in all honesty. You've just got to stay away from him, and occupy your mind with other things. Find a friend who's willing to put up with your tears and help distract you. Once you've done that, you'll wonder why on earth you where so hung up on him in the first place.

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