Is it normal to still think of him ..

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Is it normal to still think about my ex who passed away almost everyday since he was killed in 2002? We had already been broken up when he passed, a drunk driver hit him. We were not on good terms and in a way i feel as if we didn't have peace between us when he passed. Weird as it may sound, i had a dream about him soon after and in the dream he told me sorry for everything and that he loved me. I woke up on tears. I still think about that dream and him almost everyday. Is this normal? It's been almost 9 yrs... How can I let go?

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  • confusedchick
    12 years ago | pl

    I have in a way moved on . I'm married and have a baby. I'm good but he just is always on my mind. I agree I do feel guilty in a way . But how do u forget someone u loved so much

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  • IDontAskMuch
    12 years ago | pl

    It's not about forgetting them it's about living with the happy memories you have of him. If your feeling bad about being on bad terms when he passed, I don't know if your spiritual or anything but if you do believe in that as I do then if you can afford to go see a reputable medium. Hopefully he will come through and from doing this you may then be able to move on from it and live your life without the guilt your carrying around with you. Time is a healer.

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  • kricket
    12 years ago | pl

    I think to completley push this person out of your thoughts is unrealistic. Try to accept these feelings. I doubt your ex would want you to be mourning longer than need be as you have your own life to fulfill.

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  • BoredGuy
    12 years ago | pl

    I think you somehow is feeling guilty cause when he died you 2 were on bad terms and you didn't want that.

    You should let go... but its normal not to be able to forget someone you really loved, what is not normal is letting something like this getting in the way of anything.

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  • bella1975
    12 years ago | pl

    almost 9 years, you should forget things happend!
    get a life and move on with a new life and do something interesting make you forget him...

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