You shouldn't be in a relationship if you still have feelings for a past lover. You're leading your best friend on, that will cause more damage to your friendship than you think - depending on when/how he finds out.
Secondly, if this guy you're still hooked up over was your first sexual experience, then he will forever hold a part of your heart. You don't forget your first time, your first 'love', I know I haven't forgot mine! You're entitled to remember your ex and all the things you've been through together, that doesn't necessarily mean that you still love them, it just means you've accepted that at one point in your life they made you happy.
Is it normal to still love your ex while in another relationship?
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You shouldn't be in a relationship if you still have feelings for a past lover. You're leading your best friend on, that will cause more damage to your friendship than you think - depending on when/how he finds out.
Secondly, if this guy you're still hooked up over was your first sexual experience, then he will forever hold a part of your heart. You don't forget your first time, your first 'love', I know I haven't forgot mine! You're entitled to remember your ex and all the things you've been through together, that doesn't necessarily mean that you still love them, it just means you've accepted that at one point in your life they made you happy.