Is it normal to still love my ex boyfriend?

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It is been 7 years and I still love him I hAve a relationship but I can't stop thinking of him . We only dated 9 months and with my present bf we are 2gether 5 yrs. is it because he was my first or I am just being paranoid!? Also I still believe he has also having feelings for me because when I had a problem he always was there and when wee see each other it's just like we are communicating just with our eyes. Is it normal to still love him? And is it normal to believe he loves me back after all those years ?? And if he does why he is not telling me ?? Please help me

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  • iEatZombies_
    11 years ago

    Maybe he's not telling you because you are in a relationship.

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    • Benchmade93
      11 years ago

      DUMP YOUR BOYFRIEND!!!!!!!! same thing happened to me except I was the current boyfriend and she shattered my heart so bad I was never the same I still have trust issues what your doing in my opinion is just as bad as cheating so if you want him so fucking bad GO BE WITH HIM !!!!!

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  • myownopinions
    11 years ago

    Seriously, use the search bar...

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    • Jaycee123
      11 years ago

      Yea it is normal

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  • Drakewolf
    11 years ago

    Girl trust me its normal 2 still love him trrust me I still sort of love my ex gf so yay its normal!

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  • ghost03
    11 years ago

    I myself understand what you're going through. I've been in my current relationship for 4 years and till this day I think of my x n I'm always asking myself why? I was in a relationship with my x for almost 4yrs and had many problems with his mom. Eventually we separated when I had a problem and his mom managed to pull him away. Through the years he has found his ways to contact me even tho I was in my current relationship. But through time he moved on. Although I still think of him on a regular I always wonder what if. I just think the relationship we had was intense while it was going. I myself would like to know how to get over this feeling because its kind of ruining my current relationship as to I don't like to kiss, cuddle, have sex, etc. It just doesn't feel right. So I do understand but really don't know how you can get over it when I myself haven't and its been 5 yrs since I last saw or touched him and 9 mths since I've spoken to him

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  • maryf
    11 years ago

    And when we talk he sais stuff like between joke and serous like I want you

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  • maryf
    11 years ago

    It is not just the think with the eyes he is communicating me through msgs just to see how I am doing !! And for my current relationship it was over with him 2 years before! Then I started dating mu current bf ! Yes I know that is bad for my relationship , I love my bf but I just love the other guy more

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  • fuzzmelon63
    11 years ago

    your residual feelings are making you delusional about him "communicating " through the eye contact . Again, pure unhealthy obsession.

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  • fuzzmelon63
    11 years ago

    This is not normal.
    This is an unhealthy obsession because the feelings are unrequited. Given that has been 7 years and a 9 month relationship you should gave moved on and those feelings should have dissapated. You have to ask yourself why youre in love with this person. Is it just the idea of who you thought he was? This is also unhealthy for your current relationship. My guess is that you never took time to heal, and.just jumped.into the next relationship.

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