She is not a person you knew years ago in school anymore. That also means that her feelings for you (familiarity, friendship) are no longer actual.
Give it time so that she can get to know you better (you both have changed). Do not push and rush it. She is interested in restoring at least *some* contact with you and that might mean something.
Also be aware of a natural mechanism where most children that grew up together will not be interested in each other romantically/sexually (even though they are not cousins or anything).
From what you have written it seems to me that there is a lot of difficulties ahead for you, so don't get your hopes with her too high. But also do not despair.
Google "limerence" for more info on your possible condition. If you are limerent... well that sucks, but you are not alone, there are a lot of people going through all kinds of situations such as yours.
You know how that story goes: boy meets girl, boy loses girl. Boy finds girl again, girl doesn't want him. Classic, nothing new and nothing unique, believe me :)
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She is not a person you knew years ago in school anymore. That also means that her feelings for you (familiarity, friendship) are no longer actual.
Give it time so that she can get to know you better (you both have changed). Do not push and rush it. She is interested in restoring at least *some* contact with you and that might mean something.
Also be aware of a natural mechanism where most children that grew up together will not be interested in each other romantically/sexually (even though they are not cousins or anything).
From what you have written it seems to me that there is a lot of difficulties ahead for you, so don't get your hopes with her too high. But also do not despair.
Google "limerence" for more info on your possible condition. If you are limerent... well that sucks, but you are not alone, there are a lot of people going through all kinds of situations such as yours.
You know how that story goes: boy meets girl, boy loses girl. Boy finds girl again, girl doesn't want him. Classic, nothing new and nothing unique, believe me :)