Is it normal to still kinda have feelings for someone?

One of my ex girlfriends called me to hang out today and I was busy with an essay for school. We talked and caught up for almost an hour and the more I talked to her, the more I realized I still care about this girl. We dated way back sophomore year in high school and again for like two weeks senior year, and I'm a sophomore in college now. I've been with my current girlfriend for a year now and theres just something about my ex that I can't help but feel a longing for. I'm not saying that I'm gonna leave my current girl for her or anything, but I genuinely care about my ex still...there's no denying that. Is this normal? Is it like a sign or is it just like that..."Sister love" thing... Help lol!

Is It Normal?
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  • Like I said I'm not considering leaving my current girl.... Just saying I feel weird after 4 years to still have feelings for her...

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  • Who dumped who? if she dumped you, forget about it, she doesnt want you back.... get over her

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  • Well if that constitutes as mentally cheating, I've only been faithful 5 months out of this year... Lol

    But thanks for the feedback...

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  • Dude, I don't know why you even bothered posting this. This is perfectly normal. Who knows, maybe you genuinely love your ex after all.

    But sooner or later you're going to have to decide whether you're going to act on it because as of now, you're officially mentally cheating on your girlfriend. It's not fair for your current girlfriend and she needs to know eventually how you feel about your ex.

    The answer is binary; you either go for your ex or you forget her. There is no in-between. So? What will it be?

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  • Don't bother. It's abad idea.

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