You should consider whether the demands he makes of your time are justified. For example, he should be able to talk to you if there is something major going on and he needs your support. If he is merely going through a tough time and needs some extra TLC for a while, that's one thing. To me, though, it sounds like there is a larger issue here. Talk to him about how all relationships are always changing. You can never go back to the way it was before, but the relationship can grow and mature if the two people involved put the work into it. If there isn't trust and maturity, though, it won't work.
If your boyfriend doesn't understand this, it probably won't work out between you two. You will be frustrated and he will feel unfulfilled.
Is it normal to still feel smothered in a long distance relationship?
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You should consider whether the demands he makes of your time are justified. For example, he should be able to talk to you if there is something major going on and he needs your support. If he is merely going through a tough time and needs some extra TLC for a while, that's one thing. To me, though, it sounds like there is a larger issue here. Talk to him about how all relationships are always changing. You can never go back to the way it was before, but the relationship can grow and mature if the two people involved put the work into it. If there isn't trust and maturity, though, it won't work.
If your boyfriend doesn't understand this, it probably won't work out between you two. You will be frustrated and he will feel unfulfilled.