I think its completely normal to be friends with an ex if the friendship before that was really good and the breakup was on completely safe mutual terms. I believe anyone following that rule of "Must never be friends with exes, EVER" are silly for getting rid of some good friendships, its not that serious. All of them though? Sounds lucky but a little problematic. I personally would not want to talk to an ex about my current relationship as if ours didn't ever happen, it feels a bit disrespectful. Cool if your exes and you are fine with that but prefer the talks of romance to disappear and to just concentrate on being friends, her future interests are of no interest to me and vice versa. Still, if it so happens that you're friends with all of your exes, at least have it so your future interests didn't know because I can see them not taking it well when hearing "I'm friends with ALL of my exes! :)" as it could be a small repellent, at least if you were then she'd be better off not knowing.
Is it normal to still be friends with all your past girlfriends?
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I think its completely normal to be friends with an ex if the friendship before that was really good and the breakup was on completely safe mutual terms. I believe anyone following that rule of "Must never be friends with exes, EVER" are silly for getting rid of some good friendships, its not that serious. All of them though? Sounds lucky but a little problematic. I personally would not want to talk to an ex about my current relationship as if ours didn't ever happen, it feels a bit disrespectful. Cool if your exes and you are fine with that but prefer the talks of romance to disappear and to just concentrate on being friends, her future interests are of no interest to me and vice versa. Still, if it so happens that you're friends with all of your exes, at least have it so your future interests didn't know because I can see them not taking it well when hearing "I'm friends with ALL of my exes! :)" as it could be a small repellent, at least if you were then she'd be better off not knowing.