But also in a way it's unfair to him if she stays, as maybe they both can find someone who wants to be with them. And what about when the kids grow up? You are left with a partner who never wanted to be there. then u either feel it's too late to start again or u start again after wasted years. I have been here and it's not healthy for the kids to grow up thinking that's a normal relationship. My kids are much happier that I am not with their dad as he never wanted to be here, and they knew it and were in danger of thinking that's how it should be when it shouldn't .
Is it normal to stay with the person you don't love?
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But also in a way it's unfair to him if she stays, as maybe they both can find someone who wants to be with them. And what about when the kids grow up? You are left with a partner who never wanted to be there. then u either feel it's too late to start again or u start again after wasted years. I have been here and it's not healthy for the kids to grow up thinking that's a normal relationship. My kids are much happier that I am not with their dad as he never wanted to be here, and they knew it and were in danger of thinking that's how it should be when it shouldn't .