I was sure I could never have anything like I did with X for about two years. I now realise I will, I just haven't found my real X. Who is gonna make me realise my other X wasn't the one.
What if you go into old age realizing that Y was lovely and you were really lucky to have him/her, and that someone as special as X was a rarity that most people never have?
I was with my Y for about two years. He was lovely, nice. He was amazing for me. He was everything I could ask for. But, I just didn't feel it. I wasn't in love with Y like I was with X.
And, yes, Y was perfect, and It could've worked. But I would have been wondering "what if" for the rest of my life. I dont think I would've been truly happy. When I was with X, I had no doubt whatsover that he was the right one. With Y, I did. I also knew he was great, but I had this little voice in my head. So I think I did the right thing. Y deserves someone who thinks of them the same way I thought of X. And I am pretty sure that I wouldn't' have been happy in the future.
And as for me, I still remember how I felt with X. But I also believe that there isn't "THE ONE". You create this. You fall in love, and you think they are the one. And I know that I'm still young and I will find my real X. The one who is available, the one that I love too much that it hurts and scares me. The one that I could spend a whole year with him in an island, on our own, and I wouldn't mind.
It wasn't easy letting Y go, but I know that I did the right thing.
IIN to stay with the one you need because the one you love isn't available?
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I was with my Y for about two years. He was lovely, nice. He was amazing for me. He was everything I could ask for. But, I just didn't feel it. I wasn't in love with Y like I was with X.
And, yes, Y was perfect, and It could've worked. But I would have been wondering "what if" for the rest of my life. I dont think I would've been truly happy. When I was with X, I had no doubt whatsover that he was the right one. With Y, I did. I also knew he was great, but I had this little voice in my head. So I think I did the right thing. Y deserves someone who thinks of them the same way I thought of X. And I am pretty sure that I wouldn't' have been happy in the future.
And as for me, I still remember how I felt with X. But I also believe that there isn't "THE ONE". You create this. You fall in love, and you think they are the one. And I know that I'm still young and I will find my real X. The one who is available, the one that I love too much that it hurts and scares me. The one that I could spend a whole year with him in an island, on our own, and I wouldn't mind.
It wasn't easy letting Y go, but I know that I did the right thing.
You need to let go of your obsession.