Don't be putting up with that shit. You are better than that. He may have moved from another country to be with you but that is absolutely NO excuse to be treating you the way that he does.
You are his partner, not his mother, he is an adult and should be able to to day to day tasks all by himself.
Go out with your friends, have a good time, leave him to his own devices (before doing that hide all things that are precious to you so he can't deface them), that'll give him time to stew. And let him get the BUS to work. He needs to be taught a lesson that one!
I agree with you, but before taking any step, i think its better if you and your BF sit together and talk on this topic. Ask him why is he behaving this way? is their any problem? anything that you did wrong which is hurting him day by day because of which he is acting in such way. Or maybe their is some other reason which is bothering him. Mostly this behavior is when a person is not able to handle some pressure. Pressure can be of any type - work related, family related, GF/BF related, and loads of them.
I suggest you should talk with him nicely. Ask him what is the matter, what is bothering him so much? tell him how this is hurting you. If he is a real worth person to be in relationship, he will speak or if he fights or do any other mad stuff, just leave him telling why you are doing all this.
I believe talking will help you sort out many things. All the best.
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Oh hun,
Don't be putting up with that shit. You are better than that. He may have moved from another country to be with you but that is absolutely NO excuse to be treating you the way that he does.
You are his partner, not his mother, he is an adult and should be able to to day to day tasks all by himself.
Go out with your friends, have a good time, leave him to his own devices (before doing that hide all things that are precious to you so he can't deface them), that'll give him time to stew. And let him get the BUS to work. He needs to be taught a lesson that one!
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I agree with you, but before taking any step, i think its better if you and your BF sit together and talk on this topic. Ask him why is he behaving this way? is their any problem? anything that you did wrong which is hurting him day by day because of which he is acting in such way. Or maybe their is some other reason which is bothering him. Mostly this behavior is when a person is not able to handle some pressure. Pressure can be of any type - work related, family related, GF/BF related, and loads of them.
I suggest you should talk with him nicely. Ask him what is the matter, what is bothering him so much? tell him how this is hurting you. If he is a real worth person to be in relationship, he will speak or if he fights or do any other mad stuff, just leave him telling why you are doing all this.
I believe talking will help you sort out many things. All the best.