This is definitely normal. I just graduated this past June and all through my Grad year a guy who had a crush on me would carry my books to class for me, pull my chair out, meet up with me in the morning and walk me to my classes, he even bought me a dozen roses and a box of chocolates for Valentines and wasn't ashamed to give them to me in front of a bunch of people. For some reason none of that clicked with me, I turned him down as a boyfriend, I really liked his as a friend, he was a great guy, he just wasn't for me.
Fast forward a few months, he's in college now, and we reconnected. He comes home every weekend and we started hanging out, and I fell for him. All these little things about him, his personality, his mannerisms, are so endearing to me and I never gave him a chance before, but now I realize my mistake. We're together now and I've never met a better guy. Sometimes it takes a while to realize the man you dream about is the one standing right in front of you. I'm glad I didn't miss my opportunity.
If you like him, then take a chance! Life's too short to think about what could have been.
Is it normal to start liking a guy after turning him down?
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This is definitely normal. I just graduated this past June and all through my Grad year a guy who had a crush on me would carry my books to class for me, pull my chair out, meet up with me in the morning and walk me to my classes, he even bought me a dozen roses and a box of chocolates for Valentines and wasn't ashamed to give them to me in front of a bunch of people. For some reason none of that clicked with me, I turned him down as a boyfriend, I really liked his as a friend, he was a great guy, he just wasn't for me.
Fast forward a few months, he's in college now, and we reconnected. He comes home every weekend and we started hanging out, and I fell for him. All these little things about him, his personality, his mannerisms, are so endearing to me and I never gave him a chance before, but now I realize my mistake. We're together now and I've never met a better guy. Sometimes it takes a while to realize the man you dream about is the one standing right in front of you. I'm glad I didn't miss my opportunity.
If you like him, then take a chance! Life's too short to think about what could have been.