The cold approach is far from easy, and requires a great deal of confidence and the ability to take risk. Things you don't have right now. Really you'll have much better luck with online dating. Focus on being feminine and everything will work out just fine.
online dating i found sucks, any suggestions on proper sites that wont have creepy desperate loosers just wanting sex? D: (trust me theres alot of them, some seem innocent enough but when i start to warm up to them they pull there d**ks out.... )
i guess i havent really found who i am yet as a person since ive never dated before, im not into the whole sex thing and someone told me i might be asexual, i classify more with demisexual since it takes along time for me to fully trust someone...
Tossing those labels around means you must be very young. Just keep in mind that attraction is non-negotiable, and that it is either there it or isn't. It's the opposite of rational.
Just focus on being attractive yourself and more attractive mates will become available.
Mmmmmm, hi Killer. I realize that my name sounds stinky. But, really I'm an all around nice guy that takes a shower everyday. You do have sexual desires to stalk that guy, but you'll have to get better social skills. Why don't you and I become pen pals. I can teach you how to flirt, and be your coach with a sort of learn-as-you go repartee.
I am a non-threatening male that probably lives thousands of miles away from you anyway. If you think I could help you, tell me. You could either gift yourself Gold for a month and message me, or I could set up a special e_mail for you to contact me.
IIN to stalk people out of nervousness?
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The cold approach is far from easy, and requires a great deal of confidence and the ability to take risk. Things you don't have right now. Really you'll have much better luck with online dating. Focus on being feminine and everything will work out just fine.
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online dating i found sucks, any suggestions on proper sites that wont have creepy desperate loosers just wanting sex? D: (trust me theres alot of them, some seem innocent enough but when i start to warm up to them they pull there d**ks out.... )
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Okcupid is fine and POF is decent. Just realize one thing: the only difference between a 'creepy' guy and a 'cute' one is how attractive he is.
Every guy wants to have sex. If you want a proper relationship, make it clear to him but also be relationship material in the first place.
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i guess i havent really found who i am yet as a person since ive never dated before, im not into the whole sex thing and someone told me i might be asexual, i classify more with demisexual since it takes along time for me to fully trust someone...
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Tossing those labels around means you must be very young. Just keep in mind that attraction is non-negotiable, and that it is either there it or isn't. It's the opposite of rational.
Just focus on being attractive yourself and more attractive mates will become available.
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im not that young but i know younger friends and coworkers who use those labels, im not pretty i admit but the people who i attract arent my type
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Mmmmmm, hi Killer. I realize that my name sounds stinky. But, really I'm an all around nice guy that takes a shower everyday. You do have sexual desires to stalk that guy, but you'll have to get better social skills. Why don't you and I become pen pals. I can teach you how to flirt, and be your coach with a sort of learn-as-you go repartee.
I am a non-threatening male that probably lives thousands of miles away from you anyway. If you think I could help you, tell me. You could either gift yourself Gold for a month and message me, or I could set up a special e_mail for you to contact me.