I think you may have failed your wife and yourself, which is sad.
Love leads one to making a commitment to another person, and that commitment over time builds trust and love.
Your wife feels that way toward you. So are you maybe just out of touch with yourself & your relationship & history together? Could be you are depressed ...
Or are you expecting something else, or feel you missed something that isn't real? Or mentally filtering the good there?
I find it really hard to believe you could live with someone for 30 years and not love, care or like them. That's just emotionally retarded.
So why don't you talk to a counsellor, or pastor or anyone to check out why you find so little joy in your marriage?
is it normal to spend 30 years with someone you don't really love
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I think you may have failed your wife and yourself, which is sad.
Love leads one to making a commitment to another person, and that commitment over time builds trust and love.
Your wife feels that way toward you. So are you maybe just out of touch with yourself & your relationship & history together? Could be you are depressed ...
Or are you expecting something else, or feel you missed something that isn't real? Or mentally filtering the good there?
I find it really hard to believe you could live with someone for 30 years and not love, care or like them. That's just emotionally retarded.
So why don't you talk to a counsellor, or pastor or anyone to check out why you find so little joy in your marriage?