Is it normal to snoop throught your lover's phone

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  • Fuck that!

    DO IT!

    Let me tell you why :

    So many people today are lying cheating trash and the fact that you suspect him/her tells you something's not right even if only subconsciously.

    TRUST YOUR INSTINCTS.

    That's how I found out two of my gf's had cheated on me or were trying to.

    I subconsciously or consciously knew something was wrong... You can tell if you really have a good relationship BEFORE they cheat because their behavior even if ever so slight changes. Everyone's human and unless you've got mental problems you've got a conscience and it will reveal your evil deeds to the one you betrayed. Girls often deny, over react or start crying and panicking. Most of the time they'll never tell you unless it's obvious meaning they're acting so guilty you'd be a fool to not know.

    So when I was looking in my girl's eyes she looked different. A little off, something I'd never seen before. She had just gotten back from vacation. So I tried talking to her but she kept saying nothing's wrong.. blah blah blah, I just miss you honey, etc. etc. etc. BULLSHIT.

    So when she went to the bathroom I read her shit and found out.
    I dumped that dumb bitch and sent her into trauma for months.
    She later turned into a total slut as many guys around town told me.

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    When I get a gf she gets full access to my phone, emails or anything she wants any time.
    You know why?

    I have nothing to hide.

    In fact I'm glad if she wants to check up on me because then she'll know I'm not cheating on her and not hiding anything.

    If a girl/guy doesn't show you everything on their phone, email, facebook, twitter/whatever they're hiding shit from you, meaning they're flirting and trying to hook up or they've already hooked up.

    Another gf I was dating didn't want me to have access to her facebook or email but I got it without her knowing and sure enough that bitch was flirting with some other guy. That woman wanted to marry me (she asked me).

    OH HELLLLL NO BITCH !

    Those are the two girls in my life that I know for sure cheated on me. There might be one more.

    Keeping anything secret from the person you're supposed to be in love with and have their trust in you is just wrong.
    Even a diary. Why the hell would you keep a secret world of your REAL thoughts and feelings from the person you claim to love and who is supposed to love and accept you unconditionally?

    So some of you girls would keep secrets from your guy but you want him to trust and marry you with his entire life?

    That's insane.

    That's one of the things you're supposed to share with that person.

    Are trying to perpetrate a fraud?
    Pretending to be something you're not?
    Why mislead your guy/girl?

    Don't think they're gonna accept you? Then you're with the wrong person.

    Most girls and guys are selfish untrustworthy trash and cannot be trusted.

    If they think they can get away with it they'll do it in most cases.

    I would NEVER take a girl seriously if she doesn't give me access to her shit. If she's got nothing to hide then she'd gladly want to prove herself to me.

    With all the STDs today, your cheating lover can kill you.

    DO IT.

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    • I bet a relationship with someone as paranoid as you is just wonderful. If you can't trust someone you should break up with them; don't invade their privacy. Privacy is a basic human need.

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    • I would cheat on you too.

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      • No you wouldn't because I wouldn't date you ;)

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    • Geez, this is wild. People like you are terrifying. I hope you actually tell your partners up-front before things get serious that you expect to have full access to every last little detail of their life.

      At least that way the sane ones can get out before you have a chance to hurt them.

      You constantly defeat your own actions with the morals you preach. You claim a relationship is built on trust and love, and then go and say you hunt through their emails and diaries... clearly showing you do not trust them. How can you then go and say a partner is someone "you claim to love and who is supposed to love and accept you unconditionally"

      You show you only love, trust, or accept your partner so long as they let you read all of their private stuff. That's a condition, and a psychotic one at that. Get some help, dude.

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    • A part of me agrees with you

      A part of me says you're a psycho

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      • Know this :

        Not only do almost all girls I date want to marry me which means I'm not a psycho, but the only two girls I've done that to were cheating on me AND I WAS RIGHT.

        Look, most people are selfish trash and cannot be trusted. If they think they can get away with it most people do it. That's been my reality and pretty much everyone I know's reality.

        That's how life is here in our society.

        If you think your mate is cheating, then investigate.

        If your mate has nothing to hide he/she should gladly reveal everything and be an open book.

        There is NO reason why your mate should be selfishly hiding things from you.

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        • "almost all girls I date want to marry me"...bad enough to cheat on you, it seems?
          A little strange, even for IIN.
          I think if you want to snoop on your lover through their phone, then the relationship is already over, so why bother? Hasta the bye, bye, baby.

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          • Typical moronic reply.

            It's amazing you think you're intelligent.

            LOL, quite funny actually.

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    • ... I read this and thought "Oh how much I agree with this guy, me and my BF has full access to all our conversations with others on cellphones/Fb/whatever sites awe are on" Then I notice that It's you.

      You are still right though.
      If you have nothing to hide you shouldn't mind sharing it with your partner.

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      • "Then I notice that It's you."

        LMFAO :)

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    • you have made me laugh so much!!! but I completely agree with you

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