Is it normal to smile when people are in pain?

Okay, so every time someone comes to me about something that's bothering them or something they're upset about (it happens quite a lot), I can't help but smile. Sometimes I even laugh. Even if I actually feel bad for them, I still can't help but enjoy it..
And its not just mental pain and when people feel sad, I smile at physical pain too. Even my own.
People just end up thinking I'm mean or crazy. And say I'm a freak. But I really can't help it.. So yeah. Help would be appreciated.

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  • Alot of people smile and laugh when they're nervous, perhaps your nervous because you don't know what to do in such situations.

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  • Its_Called_Love

    Yeah, when my mother died, who I love dearly, I had a grin plastered to my face... It just a defense mechanism people use so others can't see their vulnerablity. Nothing to be ashamed of, lots of people do it to deal with pain.

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  • Avant-Garde

    Sadist, maybe?

    I've got the same problem. If someone's in pain wether it emotional,physical,etc. I will smile and sometimes burst out laughing. I've even fallen to the floor as a result. No matter how much I try to keep myself in check, I'll always go into fits of laughter...

    Maybe, you're even a bit of a masochist?

    I don't really like being in pain, but in a strange sense I kinda do....

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  • Dozis

    I have the same problem and I ashamed of it.
    I notice this weird emotion coming up, I know it is not normal and all I can do is moving my face in a different way,keep it from going all :)
    I wish I could do something about it, other than trying to repress the feeling but everything I done so far, just pushed me towards either depressive states or being toodetached. Or getting mad about both the emotional impairment, because that's just what it is, and whatever I am witnessing that should make me compelled but instead, makes me giggle and smile and sometimes even grin. Most people I know who have this, strange way of reacting, are usually in denial or accepted it as an inextricable part of their own personality. And that is just fucked up. Like: mom? I just told you I am not feeling well and you are smirking. Did you notice? What? How is it you get in a good mood whenever I tell you I am not feeling well? And she goes: it's not true! And I go: yeah mom. It's all in my mind. I am imagining things. Whatever.

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    • Squiddy

      Finally, someone with the same problem! I'm glad I'm not completely alone.. Haha
      I feel the exact same way. And do the exact same things. I think you described it better than I did.
      And my mother does the same thing. Makes me feel like a freak. Doesn't believe me. All that.
      I wonder if there's a name for it.. The emotional impairment, as you put it.

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  • Squiddy

    This is from me, the poster.
    I don't really like other peoples pain. I just smile. I don't know why and I can't help it. I can be completely understanding through things like the Internet or phone, but when people come up to me face to face, THEN, I smile. Its just like a random impulse I have. And it makes people think that I actually DO enjoy it. That's the problem..
    Sorry for the confusion. :P

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    • Avant-Garde

      Oops. I'm sorry I didn't see this first...

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  • clockgears

    First off. I don't think it's all that normal.. o.O If one of my friends fall over or trip or something, yea usually I burst out laughing. And then I'm like, "wait are you alright?" and then I help them up and laugh alittle. But in your case, no, I don't think it's normal that you find pleasure from other peoples pain.

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  • lc1988

    I'm in pain right now...smile away!

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  • dutchy

    depends on how bad theyre hurting.. when someone tells u theyre terminal and u burst out in laughter of overwhelming happyness.. yes i suppose your mental

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  • I smile when I see the pain and anguish on peoples faces when I rip out that huge row of tennis ball sized anal beads from their arse.

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  • alv1592

    My ex crush lied to me, and to top that he loves Kate Nash and has a weird gf who ironically has the same name. I like someone else but I have yet to hear from him, even though he has my digits (as far as I know). Yeah, it's sad sometimes. I was crying the other day because I thought my friend was mad at me, but it was actually just a misunderstanding. I'm very sensitive & I have depression on top of that. And I woke up dehydrated this morning.

    ...laughing yet?
    But seriously, you sound cold. I say not normal.

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  • LightningTechnician

    I'm thinking of one person who's been doing the same thing for a couple of days! Including myself! I mean smiling at my own pain because I'm an idiot.

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  • nowimsureimsane

    I feel better when a woman cries.....

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