Your example is hard for me to judge anything by, but I don't think that is so important. What I take notice of is that it seems your friend has perceived things already. Maybe you could talk to your friend about it.
I don't think, you're necessarily a heartless person, from what you have said, and if you can feel sorry for people and empathize with their losses and struggles, you're probably not a heartless person.
You do sound like a conscientious person, however, and you shouldn't be too afraid to talk about it.
Try noticing, how much you do feel for people, e.g., also when watching a movie.
I know I'd better talk about it, but like you said, I'm afraid. Afraid of the reactions and afraid that people their view of me will change. I'll definitely try noticing, thank you for your help!
Is it normal to smile in these situations?
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Your example is hard for me to judge anything by, but I don't think that is so important. What I take notice of is that it seems your friend has perceived things already. Maybe you could talk to your friend about it.
I don't think, you're necessarily a heartless person, from what you have said, and if you can feel sorry for people and empathize with their losses and struggles, you're probably not a heartless person.
You do sound like a conscientious person, however, and you shouldn't be too afraid to talk about it.
Try noticing, how much you do feel for people, e.g., also when watching a movie.
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I know I'd better talk about it, but like you said, I'm afraid. Afraid of the reactions and afraid that people their view of me will change. I'll definitely try noticing, thank you for your help!