Is it normal to sleep with this many guys?

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I am a girl. I lost my virginity when I was 16. I am 19 now and have slept with 4 guys total over the years. is it normal for a girl to have slept with that many guys? I just feel scummy.

I mean I have to be honest, I haven't had sex in 8 months now. My 2nd and I still have a no strings attached relationship and we have sex once in a while (been tempted to break it off but haven't done anything other than not answer his texts) and he gets around I know.

Should I break it off? I just want to have sex with a guy I love. And is it normal for a girl to have slept with 4 guys?

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    11 years ago | pl

    " I just feel scummy. "

    If you feel scummy then I recommend holding off on having more sex until you feel truly ready. Not just ready between your legs but ready in your mind too.

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  • TerryVie
    11 years ago | pl

    16-19? Thats 4 years.
    4 guys in 4 years?

    I have more than 4 in a year, and i consider myself primarily lesbian.
    Might be a european vs american thing, i dunno, but to me, those "statistics" don't seem high, at ALL!

    If you enjoy the sex, no need to break it off. If you don't enjoy it, why do it in the first place? Once you find a guy thats right for you, you can(and should) still break it off.

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  • DADNSCAL
    7 years ago | pl

    Not abnormal, and your not "scum". It sounds like you're coming to terms with your sexuality and you want it to be meaningful. Good for you,

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  • namredips
    11 years ago | pl

    Normal. Very unfortunate that it is normal. But that seems to be what our world has become like.
    If you feel scummy, stop doing what makes you feel scummy.
    God's grace to you, dear.

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  • volozi
    11 years ago | pl

    4 in 4 years is nothing.

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  • fnj944
    11 years ago | pl

    It's ok!

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  • hundredthousand
    11 years ago | pl

    Are you having sex or not? You say you haven't had sex in 8 months, but you also say you are having sex with a previous partner. Are you not counting it as sex for some reason, because it doesn't come attached with love or a relationship? I think there's your answer. You want love.

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