Is it normal to sext in this situation?

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Met someone online, became best friends, started developing feelings for each other, agreed to be exclusive but not labeling it as boyfriend/girlfriend until we meet and know for sure there's chemistry.

Knew each other 7 months, couldn't meet yet because of location (live in different countries but one is moving to the other's country to study really soon)

Both feel immense sexual chemistry but didn't give into it because of fear that it will ruin things but finally gave in...

Is it normal to sext with each other in this situation?

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44% Normal
Based on 16 votes (7 yes)
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  • RoseIsabella
    4 years ago

    Don't sext if you intend to meet later. If the chemistry isn't there when ya'll meet it will be awkward if you two meet. Trust me, baby, big Rosie wouldn't lie to you.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      4 years ago

      Thanks, that's why I asked lol, I feared it would be awkward if the chemistry isn't there. Just don't know what to do because there's sexual energy between us

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      • RoseIsabella
        4 years ago

        What you should do is to do nothing. You need to wait until you meet this person. Just because there's so called sexual energy present doesn't mean you should act on it.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          4 years ago

          Thanks for the input

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          • RoseIsabella
            4 years ago

            No, problemo. I hope everything works out well for you. Have you skyped with the person?

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            • Anonymous Post Author
              4 years ago

              Thanks me too. Yeah skype every other day actually but theyre still camera shy

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  • jethro
    4 years ago

    You're joking right? How can you be exclusive with someone that you never met? The future is doomed.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      4 years ago

      Because we talk every day... and I don't want to lose him before meeting him as he's amazing. A lot of people have online relationships and spend years dating until they meet. Just YouTube "meeting my boyfriend for the first time", it works for many people

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  • d0esnormalmatter
    4 years ago

    Yes that's normal and I do it.

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  • cupcake_wants
    4 years ago

    I had a long distance relationship for over 2 years. It's HARD. The distance is what broke us up..

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      4 years ago

      Sorry to hear that. Luckily I'm moving to his country in a year for study, just hoping to not break up before then

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      • cupcake_wants
        4 years ago

        well it sounds like there is hope for you, if you have long term plans to move. Another country though... that could be hard.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          4 years ago

          Thanks, yeah hopefully as he's amazing. I'm not moving for him, I already coincidentally planned to study there. He's in the Uk

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