It is normal, and know that it is a blessing. Yes, it is a rare trait and often leads to indecisiveness and makes situations more complicated. Use it to your advantage and know that you are the most "understanding" person. If it has caused you social complications, just know that in the real world, people like people that take their side and take their point of view whether they are wrong or right. Just be a good listener, there is no need to explain the other side of the argument and people will appreciate you just for that.
Im the same way but i learned to use it in this fashion and made great friends that always come to me to talk to about all their problems. I dont give them advice unless they ask for it and i dont give them the other side unless they ask for it.
My friends that do ask me for advice i would explain to them how the other person might feel(whoever they have conflict with) about his/her actions and ive been told it helps them out a lot and sometimes renews relationships for them.
Is it normal to see everything from both sides
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It is normal, and know that it is a blessing. Yes, it is a rare trait and often leads to indecisiveness and makes situations more complicated. Use it to your advantage and know that you are the most "understanding" person. If it has caused you social complications, just know that in the real world, people like people that take their side and take their point of view whether they are wrong or right. Just be a good listener, there is no need to explain the other side of the argument and people will appreciate you just for that.
Im the same way but i learned to use it in this fashion and made great friends that always come to me to talk to about all their problems. I dont give them advice unless they ask for it and i dont give them the other side unless they ask for it.
My friends that do ask me for advice i would explain to them how the other person might feel(whoever they have conflict with) about his/her actions and ive been told it helps them out a lot and sometimes renews relationships for them.