Is it normal to say things during sex and not mean them?

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okay, so I had sex with this guy (DB), and I know I was goin' off about being demisexual.. and I still am.. cause like, I didn't plan on having sex with him, but then again .. I did have feelings for him. Makes sense I suppose.
Anyways.. I liked him, not much, before we slept together.. then after the first time we had sex he was holding me and saying somethings.. then the second time we had sex, after that he was saying that he wanted to be with me and I was his, and he wants me and such. So after the third time we had sex, he wanted to try things out and like, have us be dating. We laid there talking about us, then we ended up having sex again.. and he was still saying he wanted to try things out and he wanted me to stay the night.. I said something along the lines of "maybe we'll try" and I ended up going home. On my way home I got attacked and sexually assulted by this random guy.. and the guy that I was with before i was assulted, DB was thinking that it was his fault that something happened, and he was messaging me for two weeks after it happened apologizing and asking if I was okay and if there was anything he could do to help me. I said I was fine, the police were doing what they do.
the fucked up thing? He's got a girlfriend..
So I was wondering if the things people say during sex, well. After sex, do guys mean it? Or is it just something to keep a girl hooked for whenever he wants?
Opinions PLEASE!

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  • quentari
    10 years ago | pl

    He might have meant it but if he's cheating on his girlfriend to be with you I wouldn't class him as a very trustworthy person when it comes to things like that...

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    • bitchtits101
      10 years ago | pl

      when I said he's got a girlfriend, i meant now.. like, he dumped her.. then a couple days later they got back together. :L

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      • quentari
        10 years ago | pl

        So he wasn't with her during the sex? that's not so bad then lol, but he did get back with her so while he may want to be with you it seems like he wants her more.

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  • 69
    10 years ago | pl

    we mean them but it doesn't mean we can fulfill them

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  • quentari
    10 years ago | pl

    Also I hope you are okay and that those guys get some serious jail time

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  • Justsomejerk
    10 years ago | pl

    Like "I'm not going to cum inside you?"

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    • bitchtits101
      10 years ago | pl

      no, like. "I want to be with you, you're mine. I like the idea of us, I wanna try things out, I like you,"

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  • ygrowup
    10 years ago | pl

    Hard to say, really depends on the person, but most often what is said is said with some truth and in confidence

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