I'm more concerned about your shotgun engagement to someone you've already had your ups and downs with in a five month period lolz.
Are you even old enough to get married? Only asking because that's not a very well thought out plan. I would not marry someone I've had ups and downs with that early off in the relationship.
Yes I am old enough to get married, and that fact there have been some ups and downs does not automatically constitute that marriage will never work. Every relationship and marriage for that matter has their fair share of ups and downs. The fact we are working through the small stuff and the big stuff only serves to streghten our relationship and love for one another. There isnt a specific rule or guidelines depicting when is a prefect time to have some troubles with a couple, some have ir early on some have it more down the road. Point is that isnt the focus of my question.
Your question is asking why you push your partner away in your sleep, the first thing you mentioned was your short engagement and ended on the note that you and your partner have had your ups and downs already. Why would you feel the need to mention that if unless subconsciously you do this because in fact he's not the one?
Have you had a long term relationship to fully understand what working through problems means? Issues early on in the relationship is not healthy or a good start for a long term commitment.
is it normal to say mean things in your sleep?
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I'm more concerned about your shotgun engagement to someone you've already had your ups and downs with in a five month period lolz.
Are you even old enough to get married? Only asking because that's not a very well thought out plan. I would not marry someone I've had ups and downs with that early off in the relationship.
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Yes I am old enough to get married, and that fact there have been some ups and downs does not automatically constitute that marriage will never work. Every relationship and marriage for that matter has their fair share of ups and downs. The fact we are working through the small stuff and the big stuff only serves to streghten our relationship and love for one another. There isnt a specific rule or guidelines depicting when is a prefect time to have some troubles with a couple, some have ir early on some have it more down the road. Point is that isnt the focus of my question.
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Your question is asking why you push your partner away in your sleep, the first thing you mentioned was your short engagement and ended on the note that you and your partner have had your ups and downs already. Why would you feel the need to mention that if unless subconsciously you do this because in fact he's not the one?
Have you had a long term relationship to fully understand what working through problems means? Issues early on in the relationship is not healthy or a good start for a long term commitment.