Boom. You hit the nail on the head. That's where your ...where OUR problem lies. Your partner can't do anything to affect it, it is all within you. You must find out why you don't love yourself, and then Change that so that you do. You owe it to your partner, to everyone you love, and everyone who loves you to be the best that you can be by loving yourself first so that you can love them fully.
I think you're right here. Also in your other post when you spoke about talking to your partner about the problem. That kind of really honest communication, where you have to be almost brutally honest with yourself, to at least let them know you are aware of what you are doing and you're trying!
Well said. It sounds like you can relate to Op very much.
IIn to sabotage your own relationship?
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I doubt my ability to love him because I don't even love myself.
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Boom. You hit the nail on the head. That's where your ...where OUR problem lies. Your partner can't do anything to affect it, it is all within you. You must find out why you don't love yourself, and then Change that so that you do. You owe it to your partner, to everyone you love, and everyone who loves you to be the best that you can be by loving yourself first so that you can love them fully.
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I think you're right here. Also in your other post when you spoke about talking to your partner about the problem. That kind of really honest communication, where you have to be almost brutally honest with yourself, to at least let them know you are aware of what you are doing and you're trying!
Well said. It sounds like you can relate to Op very much.