Is it normal to resistant to loosing weight?

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So, im chubby. But im not ugly, I have a good personality, good sense of humour, and i stand out as a person. I've never had a boyfriend. My friends and family all say i should loose weight. It will help me getting a guy, confidence and feeling good. I agree. But i feel resistant to loosing weight. I feel like by doing so im just letting society think its okay to be judging people by how they look. Why should there be a differentiation between fat and thin? And why should i be loosing weight just to get a guy? but it is true, at least where i live, guys want girls that are thin. I cant submit to it. Although i am lonely and i do feel the need of a companion in life sometimes.

Is it normal to be feeling this way?

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Based on 35 votes (25 yes)
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  • dtoledo
    14 years ago

    Just think of it as losing weight for your personal health. Regular exercise and maintaining proper diet is essential for your future health as well so it will be good to start now. Centenerians are characterized by having a healthy diet, regular exercise, and have good social ties and optimism. Good luck!

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  • kawa16
    14 years ago

    tell you the truth your only ressistant because maybe youve never been on a diet and maybe because its embarassing saying your on a diet but a diet would be a great way to get a boyfriend. the only times a guy likes a girl chubby is when she has figure and thats very rare. I personally wouldnt go out with a chubby girl but i have a friend that only likes chubby girls but hes like freaken skinny
    so most firls dont go out with him

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    Well, I am a guy and my fiance is a cow. Really, her picture is in a link in my profile.

    All I can say is being fat isn't a huge turnoff as you might think. SURE, I WOULD RATHER HAVE A SKINNY GIRL THAN A COW. I had to use all caps for emphasis. However, if you have a good heart and aren't really ugly, than you will meet a good guy.

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    • LoveLVR
      14 years ago

      You are always bashing your soon to be wife! I don't think that is nice at all... Calling her a cow, first of all she is not a cow she is going to be your wife, why are you so mean?

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      • dreamer_aye88
        14 years ago

        i agree with that! seriously, its rude to be referring to her picture all the time to make people feel better.

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