is it normal to resent unemployed boyfriend?

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  • Well she said "While he was living with me" which is past-tense, so I'd assume he has his own accommodation. Plus, nowhere does it say that he doesn't care for her not having a car, infact he never told her to get rid of it to begin with, she just assumed it to be the case because she couldn't handle a rude comment.

    I agree he most likely is "mooching" off her but my point is that it's the same "mooching" a stay at home wife does and I just find it funny that when the genders are reversed all of a sudden the person being looked after is a burden not worth the shit on the side of your shoe, and I'm all cool with people taking that stance but I swear to fuck if I see the people taking that stance here come at me later down the line for making a controversial "Housewives ain't shit" stance then I'mm'a be pointing out some retards.

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    • Again, the comment infers he does not care that she would lose the car. There is nothing indicating he cares other than you trying to fit your narrative about house husbands. Also you being mad that you can not be a house husband doesn't change the OP dating an ovbious deadbeat.

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      • She never mentioned a lack of care from him, all she mentioned was him portraying the car as a piece of junk, something she obviously agreed with and made the decision to sell based on. You're talking about an adult making adult decisions.

        "My narrative around house husbands" is the same as my narrative around housewives and that's that they're both lazy and have an easy life but for some fucked up reason being a house spouse is acceptable only to the ones holding precious puss, it seems.

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        • Yes, a lack if care for it is that. That is called "dismissive". You make no real argument and this doesn't help OP solve their BF problems.

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          • So your argument here is that he's a piece of shit because he agreed with her that the car she needs to save up for to repair is a dud.

            Ya'know what. You got me. Welldone, good talk. Take care.

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