This actually baffles me. Some of the people here who I know for a fact would hold the position that a housewife is just as valuable as a bread winner are outright saying that the dude here is a waste of space because he's a financial burden that brings zero financial benefits to the relationship.
Like, the fuck? You fuckers better hold true to these sentiments when y'all call me a sexist s.o.b when I talk about how lazy being a housewife is. Swear to fuck, bruh.
I mean it doesn't sound like he is doing anything at home either. Also if he is handicapped, he could get goverment aid without really doing anything and give it to her for bills. The fact she sold her car and he refused to care says a lot as well. Its clear he is mooching off this poor woman. If her only justification for keeping him is "I love him" that means main thing is emotional support. Not things like cooking, cleaning, or finances. This works for say sugar daddy/Mama but not in situations where one person is financially struggling like this.
Well she said "While he was living with me" which is past-tense, so I'd assume he has his own accommodation. Plus, nowhere does it say that he doesn't care for her not having a car, infact he never told her to get rid of it to begin with, she just assumed it to be the case because she couldn't handle a rude comment.
I agree he most likely is "mooching" off her but my point is that it's the same "mooching" a stay at home wife does and I just find it funny that when the genders are reversed all of a sudden the person being looked after is a burden not worth the shit on the side of your shoe, and I'm all cool with people taking that stance but I swear to fuck if I see the people taking that stance here come at me later down the line for making a controversial "Housewives ain't shit" stance then I'mm'a be pointing out some retards.
Again, the comment infers he does not care that she would lose the car. There is nothing indicating he cares other than you trying to fit your narrative about house husbands. Also you being mad that you can not be a house husband doesn't change the OP dating an ovbious deadbeat.
She never mentioned a lack of care from him, all she mentioned was him portraying the car as a piece of junk, something she obviously agreed with and made the decision to sell based on. You're talking about an adult making adult decisions.
"My narrative around house husbands" is the same as my narrative around housewives and that's that they're both lazy and have an easy life but for some fucked up reason being a house spouse is acceptable only to the ones holding precious puss, it seems.
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This actually baffles me. Some of the people here who I know for a fact would hold the position that a housewife is just as valuable as a bread winner are outright saying that the dude here is a waste of space because he's a financial burden that brings zero financial benefits to the relationship.
Like, the fuck? You fuckers better hold true to these sentiments when y'all call me a sexist s.o.b when I talk about how lazy being a housewife is. Swear to fuck, bruh.
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I mean it doesn't sound like he is doing anything at home either. Also if he is handicapped, he could get goverment aid without really doing anything and give it to her for bills. The fact she sold her car and he refused to care says a lot as well. Its clear he is mooching off this poor woman. If her only justification for keeping him is "I love him" that means main thing is emotional support. Not things like cooking, cleaning, or finances. This works for say sugar daddy/Mama but not in situations where one person is financially struggling like this.
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Well she said "While he was living with me" which is past-tense, so I'd assume he has his own accommodation. Plus, nowhere does it say that he doesn't care for her not having a car, infact he never told her to get rid of it to begin with, she just assumed it to be the case because she couldn't handle a rude comment.
I agree he most likely is "mooching" off her but my point is that it's the same "mooching" a stay at home wife does and I just find it funny that when the genders are reversed all of a sudden the person being looked after is a burden not worth the shit on the side of your shoe, and I'm all cool with people taking that stance but I swear to fuck if I see the people taking that stance here come at me later down the line for making a controversial "Housewives ain't shit" stance then I'mm'a be pointing out some retards.
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Again, the comment infers he does not care that she would lose the car. There is nothing indicating he cares other than you trying to fit your narrative about house husbands. Also you being mad that you can not be a house husband doesn't change the OP dating an ovbious deadbeat.
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She never mentioned a lack of care from him, all she mentioned was him portraying the car as a piece of junk, something she obviously agreed with and made the decision to sell based on. You're talking about an adult making adult decisions.
"My narrative around house husbands" is the same as my narrative around housewives and that's that they're both lazy and have an easy life but for some fucked up reason being a house spouse is acceptable only to the ones holding precious puss, it seems.
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Yes, a lack if care for it is that. That is called "dismissive". You make no real argument and this doesn't help OP solve their BF problems.
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So your argument here is that he's a piece of shit because he agreed with her that the car she needs to save up for to repair is a dud.
Ya'know what. You got me. Welldone, good talk. Take care.