Is he handicapped? Is he getting any help applying for jobs, does he have any income what so ever like disability? If not you need to tell him to apply for the proper resources. If he's not actually handicapped he's just lazy and either way you need to set some ultimatums, he either gets his shit together or you leave him. You can't expect him to try harder if you just let him sit around and do everything for him, you're making him too comfortable with his slacker lifestyle. Sit him down and have a serious talk. Maybe he needs help with motivation, an ultimatum might make him realize the seriousness of the situation and if it doesn't... Well you've lost a giant weight on your shoulders to be honest.
is it normal to resent unemployed boyfriend?
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Is he handicapped? Is he getting any help applying for jobs, does he have any income what so ever like disability? If not you need to tell him to apply for the proper resources. If he's not actually handicapped he's just lazy and either way you need to set some ultimatums, he either gets his shit together or you leave him. You can't expect him to try harder if you just let him sit around and do everything for him, you're making him too comfortable with his slacker lifestyle. Sit him down and have a serious talk. Maybe he needs help with motivation, an ultimatum might make him realize the seriousness of the situation and if it doesn't... Well you've lost a giant weight on your shoulders to be honest.