I would wait for her forever, if I had to. The bitterness is just something I wish I could get rid of. Me friendship with him isn't affected too much really - just when he does something that really upsets her or hurts her. And mostly because the things he does I know I never would do to her. But yeah I'm taking it on the chin and realizing it's a live and learn thing. She loves me the same way she loves him and he knows that, so I've told him if it doesn't work out between them, I will offer meself up to her. He said he understands, but I know it doesn't make me happy. I figure it's payback for him not considering me feelings when he jumped at the chance of me stepping aside for him. Thank you everyone for the advice, I'm feeling a bit better now.
Is it normal to regret stepping aside for your best friend?
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I would wait for her forever, if I had to. The bitterness is just something I wish I could get rid of. Me friendship with him isn't affected too much really - just when he does something that really upsets her or hurts her. And mostly because the things he does I know I never would do to her. But yeah I'm taking it on the chin and realizing it's a live and learn thing. She loves me the same way she loves him and he knows that, so I've told him if it doesn't work out between them, I will offer meself up to her. He said he understands, but I know it doesn't make me happy. I figure it's payback for him not considering me feelings when he jumped at the chance of me stepping aside for him. Thank you everyone for the advice, I'm feeling a bit better now.