Don't feel bad. She treated you like crap and she deserved you getting mad at her. If she can't deal with you getting mad when she quite blatantly wrongs you, it's her lookout.
It's normal to feel awful about it, it's the sort of thing that would make me feel the same way as you, but it's NOT right to feel horrible about it if she wronged you. You're too nice, and being nice is great until it means you get hurt by something like this when you really shouldn't be. YOU are the victim, not her.
I'm probably reacting so much to this story because the above is what I have wished many times I could convince myself to believe. It's easy to feel like a perpetrator and not a victim, but what you did was right not wrong and she would have done the same to you, I'm sure.
Is it normal to regret a memory of when I got angry at an ex?
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Don't feel bad. She treated you like crap and she deserved you getting mad at her. If she can't deal with you getting mad when she quite blatantly wrongs you, it's her lookout.
It's normal to feel awful about it, it's the sort of thing that would make me feel the same way as you, but it's NOT right to feel horrible about it if she wronged you. You're too nice, and being nice is great until it means you get hurt by something like this when you really shouldn't be. YOU are the victim, not her.
I'm probably reacting so much to this story because the above is what I have wished many times I could convince myself to believe. It's easy to feel like a perpetrator and not a victim, but what you did was right not wrong and she would have done the same to you, I'm sure.