it's not normal unfortunately for her. I hope one day she regrets it and grows enough confidence to look back and laugh. Also age plays a huge role in this behaviour. If she is young, like 13-14 maybe even 15 yeah it's normal but if she's a full blown adult still doing it she has a personality disorder and abandonment issues.
you would be right pal. Borderline personality disorder is characterised by self harm, severe abandonment issues and fear of being hurt, or left alone, mood swings, paranoia, distortion of reality...is she in any way like that as well as the obsession with you?
I would be very surprised if she doesnt have borderline personality disorder.
self harm? i dont know. i think she starves herself. i never saw her eat the whole time we were together.
severe abandonment issues? probably. she seems to feel the need to make sure everyone loves her.
fear of being hurt? yes.
mood swings? YES.
paranoia? i dont think so. maybe a little. when i told her that hanging out with her feels different from hanging out with my friends, she instantly assumed i meant it in a negative way. but i actually meant i was very attracted to her.
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it's not normal unfortunately for her. I hope one day she regrets it and grows enough confidence to look back and laugh. Also age plays a huge role in this behaviour. If she is young, like 13-14 maybe even 15 yeah it's normal but if she's a full blown adult still doing it she has a personality disorder and abandonment issues.
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she's a grown woman. she is older than me.
and i do think she has a personality disorder.
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you would be right pal. Borderline personality disorder is characterised by self harm, severe abandonment issues and fear of being hurt, or left alone, mood swings, paranoia, distortion of reality...is she in any way like that as well as the obsession with you?
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I would be very surprised if she doesnt have borderline personality disorder.
self harm? i dont know. i think she starves herself. i never saw her eat the whole time we were together.
severe abandonment issues? probably. she seems to feel the need to make sure everyone loves her.
fear of being hurt? yes.
mood swings? YES.
paranoia? i dont think so. maybe a little. when i told her that hanging out with her feels different from hanging out with my friends, she instantly assumed i meant it in a negative way. but i actually meant i was very attracted to her.
distortion of reality? YES. ABSOLUTELY.