Is it normal to really want the guy i was messing around with?

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I was hooking up with a guy because I didn't want a relationship. It went on for about 2 months until he told me he was moving on and felt like I was getting attached, which I was certain I wasn't. I brushed it aside and a week later, after walking past him on campus, realized that I really still like him. I needed to get it off my chest so I told him, to which he replied "I'm sorry but I am not interested in a relationship right now". Days later, I found out he was into a girl on the rugby team, who, in many other unbiased peoples' opinions, have said they would not date and that nothing would happen between him and her. Now every time I see him my heart drops and I just want to have him for myself. Is it normal? Is it normal to want to hang onto the notion that something might someday happen between us? I really don't ever experience emotions about people because I'm very guarded.

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  • Allistalla
    11 years ago | pl

    Just ask him out already its ovbious you want to .

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago | pl

    Its very normal
    Its also normal for you to want him more because you cant have him
    also, maybe the relationship will go somewhere maybe it wont
    dosent matter what other ppl say
    anyone can fall in love with anyone
    but if they dont, maybe you'll have your shot
    but maybe you should also let go while your ahead, b.c as unblieveable as this may sound, its the easiest time b.c your not very involved
    but if you rele like him
    and its worth it to you
    go for it

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