Everyone judges and people who say they don't are flat out lying. There is nothing wrong with being judgmental as long as you keep an open mind. Think about the animal world. Animals (like poison dart frogs, for example) use bright colors to tell predators that they're no good to eat. Birds do their little mating dances to impress the ladies. In packs, smaller and weaker animals are sometimes abandoned or shunned from the pack. I mean, these might seem like lame examples, but that's just the way animals judge interaction with each other - on looks or scent alone. The beauty of the human mind is that we're able to rescind on these impressions. I've said it before but I'll say it again. I actually love it when I judge someone prematurely and I'm proven totally wrong. It makes me feel happy to know that people can still surprise me without really doing anything at all. It's kind of a learning experience. Keep an open mind and you may find that you learn even more about some people that way.
IIN to really not want to judge people but cant help it
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Everyone judges and people who say they don't are flat out lying. There is nothing wrong with being judgmental as long as you keep an open mind. Think about the animal world. Animals (like poison dart frogs, for example) use bright colors to tell predators that they're no good to eat. Birds do their little mating dances to impress the ladies. In packs, smaller and weaker animals are sometimes abandoned or shunned from the pack. I mean, these might seem like lame examples, but that's just the way animals judge interaction with each other - on looks or scent alone. The beauty of the human mind is that we're able to rescind on these impressions. I've said it before but I'll say it again. I actually love it when I judge someone prematurely and I'm proven totally wrong. It makes me feel happy to know that people can still surprise me without really doing anything at all. It's kind of a learning experience. Keep an open mind and you may find that you learn even more about some people that way.