I think relationships build character, you don't want to miss that phase in your life. However I do see how the whole affair is sensationalised on TV and the really dysfunctional relationships and abuse can be a real turnoff, but that's the risk you take living and loving. You can love your own way, reinvent or improve how you think relationships should be but don't give up on it totally! Physical relationships also get emotional - it's what draws people together to form more deeper intimate relationships, a whole new level from just friendship. I wouldn't want to missout on that experience.
I can build my character when I stare at a pancake. I don't need live dick for that.
Ahaha, really though. I don't like pretending and hiding things. I remember I had to take a shit when a guy was visiting my sister, in our parents' home. I really had to, so I did, he complained and was disgusted and we had an argument. My sister wasn't even angry but pretended she was to give him his point, saying that it was rude of me for not lodging my ass and waiting for them to finish their half-assed dinner.
I called her a sell-out and we didn't speak for four days.
Man, I am not up for that, so a relationship won't really help.
You don't need a relationship to build character. Some people do not need a partner to figure out who they are. What you speak of is called Codependency and its not considered a healthy thing. Also some people are very close to friends. Especially if your talking about women.
Is it normal to prefer the single life?
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I think relationships build character, you don't want to miss that phase in your life. However I do see how the whole affair is sensationalised on TV and the really dysfunctional relationships and abuse can be a real turnoff, but that's the risk you take living and loving. You can love your own way, reinvent or improve how you think relationships should be but don't give up on it totally! Physical relationships also get emotional - it's what draws people together to form more deeper intimate relationships, a whole new level from just friendship. I wouldn't want to missout on that experience.
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I can build my character when I stare at a pancake. I don't need live dick for that.
Ahaha, really though. I don't like pretending and hiding things. I remember I had to take a shit when a guy was visiting my sister, in our parents' home. I really had to, so I did, he complained and was disgusted and we had an argument. My sister wasn't even angry but pretended she was to give him his point, saying that it was rude of me for not lodging my ass and waiting for them to finish their half-assed dinner.
I called her a sell-out and we didn't speak for four days.
Man, I am not up for that, so a relationship won't really help.
You don't need a relationship to build character. Some people do not need a partner to figure out who they are. What you speak of is called Codependency and its not considered a healthy thing. Also some people are very close to friends. Especially if your talking about women.