IIN to prefer solo sex?

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  • thegypsysailor
    7 years ago | pl

    Sounds like your problem is the kind of guys you sleep with, not guys in general. Of course, if all you want a guy for is to get your rocks off anyway, then of course you'd do that better alone.

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    • AB1234
      7 years ago | pl

      Thanks, at least, for the "if." No, sex isn't even among the top five relationship criteria I have, but it's an important way to build intimacy. And humans have needs. I don't know what "kind" of guys I've been with in the past other than that they're guys I've met in classes, gotten to know and dated.

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      • BlackyHancock
        7 years ago | pl

        The trouble with so many young guys these days is they get their idea of what sex is all about from all the extreme hardcore porn they watch online.

        They play this out in the bedroom (or wherever) with an ignorance of foreplay and wanting to try 50 different positions and generally displaying a complete lack of any idea of what having mutually satisfying great sex is about.

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        • AB1234
          7 years ago | pl

          If I could send you a solid gold star, I would. Yeah, come to think of it, I think that's it. Every boyfriend I ever had was open about his online porn hubs (I'm very open-minded...). But, you're right, it rarely ever works out in real life like in online vid clips.

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          • BlackyHancock
            7 years ago | pl

            Thanks. I'm not against porn per se, but I think it's become so ubiquitous and has become normalized in culture.

            Human male brains have never before in the history of the world been so saturated with pornographic images.

            Most porn scenes (especially these days where they tend to be so extreme) are not how real life is or should be.

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      • mysistersshadow
        7 years ago | pl

        There are a tiny fraction of guys that know what there doing but there are only a few. Thats yet another reason I like guys around 10 years older than me there more experienced. And I completely agree that sex isn't my highest priority but if I'm going to have sex I prefer it to be mutually pleasurable.

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        • AB1234
          7 years ago | pl

          "sex isn't my highest priority but if I'm going to have sex I prefer it to be mutually pleasurable." AMEN!

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        • atebefore7
          7 years ago | pl

          Its the female's responsibility to manipulate the cock and nut sack.

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