Iin to pitch a fit because my husband went out to lunch with a female

I disagree with everyone. People call me jealous too but I am real good at picking up on bs and usually know when people around me are doing stuff they aren't suppose to be. A lunch break is a break, not work related. Why would a grown married man have any reason to go off to lunch with another woman? There aren't any other men for him to go to lunch with? And I see her invitation to meet you as a big red flag. If it was a simple lunch, why is she trying to get more emotional and meet his wife? (to sum you up and check out the competition) Your husband may have not meant anything by it but I would calmly tell him that you are uncomfortable with him spending any alone time with another woman outside of official work as boundary crossing and make sure you will abide by that as well.