I just want to add that it does take courage to do what you did, and not everybody can handle the rejection that comes with hitting on random women. I don't consider myself a creep for approaching all those girls in public places; I just used the various settings as backdrops for my conversation topics. You'll come across as a creep if you come on strong and fail to use any sort of tact or subtlety.
You have to realize pretty women are constantly being hit on by guys left and right every day, and they don't see us the way we see them. A guy who approaches a pretty girl and tries to act 'really nice' usually just 1) bores her, and/or 2) creeps her out.
It's really a simple matter of how much courage/confidence you have, how much you really want to go out on a date with a beautiful woman (some guys just don't want to), how much you are willing to accept that a lot of courtship boils down to simple odds, and how well you are able to deal with rejection. There's some kind of myth that guys who plan how they're going to hit on women are creeps, and all the good guys are sweet and innocent, and would never plan anything and just say 'hello,' but that's all just a myth. Make a plan and go for the beautiful girl. You're worth it, and so is she.
Is it normal to pickup women at random places?
← View full post
I just want to add that it does take courage to do what you did, and not everybody can handle the rejection that comes with hitting on random women. I don't consider myself a creep for approaching all those girls in public places; I just used the various settings as backdrops for my conversation topics. You'll come across as a creep if you come on strong and fail to use any sort of tact or subtlety.
You have to realize pretty women are constantly being hit on by guys left and right every day, and they don't see us the way we see them. A guy who approaches a pretty girl and tries to act 'really nice' usually just 1) bores her, and/or 2) creeps her out.
It's really a simple matter of how much courage/confidence you have, how much you really want to go out on a date with a beautiful woman (some guys just don't want to), how much you are willing to accept that a lot of courtship boils down to simple odds, and how well you are able to deal with rejection. There's some kind of myth that guys who plan how they're going to hit on women are creeps, and all the good guys are sweet and innocent, and would never plan anything and just say 'hello,' but that's all just a myth. Make a plan and go for the beautiful girl. You're worth it, and so is she.