I saw a girl at Whole Foods that I thought was cute, so I went up to her and asked her some b.s. about whether she preferred silver or gold on a guy, or maybe it was something about whether she preferred jazz or rock, for whatever reason. It didn't matter; I just wanted to talk to her because she was cute, and she knew this. My interest in her was implicit. After about a minute, I said we should get together, and she gave me her number. It was a real number, and we had a drink together later that week. She was from Los Angeles and she was already married. Another time I approached a girl at the post office, got her number and met her at a bar that very night. At the bar she said she already had a boyfriend, but she just wanted to be friendly. Another time I approached a girl at a chinese take-out restaurant, and she gave me her number, but then she ignored me. You can imagine that I was getting pretty frustrated at this point, but if you go up to every pretty woman that you see and talk to her, eventually you will end up kissing one of them. If you never go up to anybody, that will never happen. So yes; go up to women at the grocery store, the pharmacy, the BBQ place, anywhere...they couldn't care less. They either have a boyfriend or they don't, and they either like you or they don't. It doesn't matter if you're at a party or waiting in the checkout line at Whole Foods.
Is it normal to pickup women at random places?
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I saw a girl at Whole Foods that I thought was cute, so I went up to her and asked her some b.s. about whether she preferred silver or gold on a guy, or maybe it was something about whether she preferred jazz or rock, for whatever reason. It didn't matter; I just wanted to talk to her because she was cute, and she knew this. My interest in her was implicit. After about a minute, I said we should get together, and she gave me her number. It was a real number, and we had a drink together later that week. She was from Los Angeles and she was already married. Another time I approached a girl at the post office, got her number and met her at a bar that very night. At the bar she said she already had a boyfriend, but she just wanted to be friendly. Another time I approached a girl at a chinese take-out restaurant, and she gave me her number, but then she ignored me. You can imagine that I was getting pretty frustrated at this point, but if you go up to every pretty woman that you see and talk to her, eventually you will end up kissing one of them. If you never go up to anybody, that will never happen. So yes; go up to women at the grocery store, the pharmacy, the BBQ place, anywhere...they couldn't care less. They either have a boyfriend or they don't, and they either like you or they don't. It doesn't matter if you're at a party or waiting in the checkout line at Whole Foods.