I'm a chick and god damn I WISH guys would walk up to me and try to get my number or go on a date. It seems like now, people only want to go on dates with people they've known for ages or met at parties. I would say most guys don't do what you do but I don't think you should stop.
Aww i'm sorry sweetie :)
I know exactly what you're saying about the people only wanting to date people they've known forever or met at parties, especially out where I live in Chicago. See the thing is that this situation really pissed me off because I was on face book a few days after and the woman I "met" at the store showed up on my "people you may know" section and i took a look at her page and sure enough she has her status as "OMG I was at the store and this creepy guy named [my first and last name] from Chicago hit on me and it was the creepiest thing ever"...Meanwhile I took a look at her wall and I saw a comment from a guy that said "hey it was nice meeting you at level (a bar here in Chi) hopefully we'll get to hangout more" so apparently some guy tried to pick her up there and it wasnt creepy, when CLEARLY we all know that he most likely bought her a drink, used some cheesy pickup line, and probably tried to get her to come home with him...How is that not creepym but me asking her for her number and asking her out on a DATE is creepy???? Sucks that this society is that messed up that meeting some guy in a bar thats trying to fuck you is normal but a guy that wants to take you out on a date is a creep>..Cant figure it out!!!
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I'm a chick and god damn I WISH guys would walk up to me and try to get my number or go on a date. It seems like now, people only want to go on dates with people they've known for ages or met at parties. I would say most guys don't do what you do but I don't think you should stop.
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Aww i'm sorry sweetie :)
I know exactly what you're saying about the people only wanting to date people they've known forever or met at parties, especially out where I live in Chicago. See the thing is that this situation really pissed me off because I was on face book a few days after and the woman I "met" at the store showed up on my "people you may know" section and i took a look at her page and sure enough she has her status as "OMG I was at the store and this creepy guy named [my first and last name] from Chicago hit on me and it was the creepiest thing ever"...Meanwhile I took a look at her wall and I saw a comment from a guy that said "hey it was nice meeting you at level (a bar here in Chi) hopefully we'll get to hangout more" so apparently some guy tried to pick her up there and it wasnt creepy, when CLEARLY we all know that he most likely bought her a drink, used some cheesy pickup line, and probably tried to get her to come home with him...How is that not creepym but me asking her for her number and asking her out on a DATE is creepy???? Sucks that this society is that messed up that meeting some guy in a bar thats trying to fuck you is normal but a guy that wants to take you out on a date is a creep>..Cant figure it out!!!
You should give it a go too. Why wait for a guy to approach you when you could take the first step? Leap of faith.