Is it normal to pay a friend $100 for helping with two days of moving?

My boyfriend and I moved recently and his friend helped us because he had a large truck. He helped for two days and I am grateful for his help because he moved all the heavy stuff with my boyfriend. Then my boyfriend pulled out $300 to give him, $200 of it for a big tv my boyfriend bought off him and $100 for helping us move. I thought it was kind of a lot although that was mostly because I thought he was giving him the full 300 all for moving at first. It just seemed like a lot to me, especially after being kind of broke after spending money moving and buying stuff for the apartment. I think I might just be being cheap though, he did help a lot.

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  • olderdude-xx

    It all depends on how good a friend this person is.

    Would they be willing to help you move again? There answer tells you how they feel about it.

    Unless they are really very good friends... methinks $100 these days for 2 days of moving is rather cheap on your part.

    As for everyone saying beer and pizza. Your best friends will do that; and they expect you to help them on the same basis (would you?). I've rarely found people willing to show up a 2nd time on that deal (even if I've spent 10-20 days at their house helping them renovate - they seem to feel that helping me 1 day equals the scales).

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    • megadriver

      This... I've helped people renovate, painted their house, helped other people move, but when I had to move... Only one of my friends agreed to help me.

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      • SwickDinging

        Isn't that always the way.

        I have a long memory for this stuff. These days I know which friends are worth making the effort for, and which aren't.

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  • SwickDinging

    I have a big vehicle. I will help my friends move in they ask me to, but it is a massive imposition. Moving is shit, nobody wants to do it. It usually takes up the entire weekend that I could be spending with my children. I don't get much free time.

    $100 probably covered the fuel for such a big vehicle and a little bit extra for the trouble of this person spending 2 whole days moving somebody else's stuff.

    Have you ever had to hire professional movers? If you ever do you will look back on this and cringe at how surprised you were that your boyfriend paid your friend a measly $100 For doing this.

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  • charli.m

    Think of it in terms of how much it would have cost you to hire a mover...and how much time and effort your friend put in to help you when he could have left you and your boyfriend to do it on your own.

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  • SmokeEverything

    If its somebody you're friends with beer and pizza is a normal pay arrangement

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    • megadriver

      Still a cheap and dick move... Even if you are best friends. It's still time, fuel expenses and a wasted weekend.

      If I helped someone move for 2 days and they repaid me with cheap ass pizza and 2 beers, I'd definitely be pissed of and probably cut all ties with that friend, cause I know where we stand when it comes to valuing work and each other. If that friend is on hard times, inviting me over for dinner, or for a barbecue when they get the new place sorted out would be a good enough thanks, but if they do have money, it's just being a cheapskate and a shitty friend.

      Beer and pizza are good enough pay for helping someone repaint a few rooms, or helping them work on their car, or something like that, but not for moving house.

      Friends aren't glorified slaves that must help you and work for nothing, just cause you are friends.

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      • SmokeEverything

        I mean not like 2 beers. Enough to keep you drunk for the day.

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        • LloydAsher

          Yeah its gonna be a few cases

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          • SmokeEverything

            Case or 2. Like I said enough to keep you drunk for the day with a few left to drink before you go to the liquor store the next day

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      • litelander8

        Helping loved ones isn’t a waste.

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    • litelander8

      Always.

      WILL WORK FOR BEER.

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  • megadriver

    For two days of work and fuel expenses for his vehicle, 100 bucks isn't much.

    Some people say it's too much money, cause it's a friend, but so what?! It's his time, his vehicle and probably one whole weekend, without the chance to unwind. Friends are not slaves that can carry and move your shit, just cause you are friends. Even if it's a best friend, you gotta thank him for his help properly.

    Be thankful your boyfriend's mate helped. If you had to resort to a moving company, it would have cost a helluva lot more than 100 dollars.

    I've helped 2 of my friends move and provided the transport (the dealership van - extra long Sprinter) and both of my friends paid me 50 and 60 Euro. 20 bucks alone went for fuel... full size, V6 vans don't run on hopes and dreams XD

    Both times moving took about 6 hours, cause they already had most stuff ready to go and not much heavy furniture. They were also smart enough to take apart large furniture so it's easier to move.

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  • Ellenna

    His friend, his money, his decision. If it was paid out of joint money he should've discussed it with you first.

    He sounds generous and you sound miserly: what would it have cost to employ a professional mover for 2 days? Ring up a few companies and I'm sure you'll find it would've been much more than $100, so actually your boyfriend came out of ahead.

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  • Mammal-lover

    100bisnt bad. Hell of akot bettrr than pizza. Man this shits annoying. At least buy me some KFC.

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  • RoseIsabella

    I dunno, my mom always slips a little extra for helping even if it's family. $100 doesn't seem like too much.

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  • Overall I can see I was being a bit of a Scrooge. I think my brain just couldn't process it was only $100 for moving and the other $200 was for the tv. It's a giant tv too, it was well over $1000 brand new. Overall I'm grateful to have a friend who would help us out that way.

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  • Kool_owl

    It would of cost more if you hired a mover so , just be happy he was willing to help you all out and he had a truck .

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  • leggs91200

    Of course a lot of people who want help moving usually don't have everything packed up and ready to just go. No, normally there is crap everywhere just kind of laying around.

    If the person moving already has everything packed, cleaned up, etc, it shouldn't take two full days just to move.

    $100 for two days of grueling work like moving house is next to nothing.

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  • FromTheSouthWeirdMan

    If it took two days its not alot. He could have potentially missed 2 days of work where he probably would make atleast 300+ (before taxes)in those 2 days.

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