"Someone's saying that a toy for male masturbation is better than what I have! THIS IS MISOGYNY!"
For the love of God, Wigs, grow the fuck up. What are you, like 43? That's just fucking sad.
Oh, and did you miss the part when the OP said that it was better? Let me guess, he's a secret sleeper-misogynist agent 47 or something?
It's fucking sad how you feel so defeated by a damn object, that the meer suggestion of something being better than your vagina gets you this worked up, as if your vagina is the only thing of worth you feel you have that you have to try and defend its value.
Relax. I already said several posts ago that occasionally masturbation is what you want at the moment. I also said that if it's genuinely true that an object is better then that's fine too. But, often people with social, emotional & mental problems and pornography addictions build up in their minds that masturbation is the tits when they really crave physical contact and a relationship with a real person. There's healthy and unhealthy here.
None of those are relevant to the discussion. The discussion is that sex toys for masturbating can be prefered over sex with another person. You're trying to conflate sex with emotional bonding/relationships, or an abundance of masturbation. It seems like you've tried to find relevant citations but couldn't have just gone with the next...Well, I can't say "best" thing but next thing you think is relevant.
I mean, the discussion was about people who are depressed or isolated and using masturbation as a substitute for human contact or people whose masturbation was causing problems in life. For the third time now, masturbation is fine and CAN be preferred at times. I already said that. 3 times. But if it's causing problems or causing someone to remain isolated and not have relationships then it is a health issue. Denying the desire for physical contact is a common reaction from people who are depressed, have social anxiety, etc. Usually causes more isolation and worse depression. As shown.
No, the subject was about people prefering sex toys over the real thing. You also assume that people need to be in a relationship to have physical contact.
Is it normal to own a Fleshlight?
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"Someone's saying that a toy for male masturbation is better than what I have! THIS IS MISOGYNY!"
For the love of God, Wigs, grow the fuck up. What are you, like 43? That's just fucking sad.
Oh, and did you miss the part when the OP said that it was better? Let me guess, he's a secret sleeper-misogynist agent 47 or something?
It's fucking sad how you feel so defeated by a damn object, that the meer suggestion of something being better than your vagina gets you this worked up, as if your vagina is the only thing of worth you feel you have that you have to try and defend its value.
It's actually really damn sad.
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Relax. I already said several posts ago that occasionally masturbation is what you want at the moment. I also said that if it's genuinely true that an object is better then that's fine too. But, often people with social, emotional & mental problems and pornography addictions build up in their minds that masturbation is the tits when they really crave physical contact and a relationship with a real person. There's healthy and unhealthy here.
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Citation needed.
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https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Social_isolation
http://usatoday30.usatoday.com/news/health/2003-03-09-hug-usat_x.htm
http://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/masturbate-too-much
http://www.healthyplace.com/blogs/treatinganxiety/2011/01/is-anxiety-poisoning-your-personal-relationships/
http://blogs.psychcentral.com/sex/2012/05/compulsive-masturbation-the-secret-sexual-disorder/
http://www.askmen.com/dating/love_tip_400/404_love_tip.html
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None of those are relevant to the discussion. The discussion is that sex toys for masturbating can be prefered over sex with another person. You're trying to conflate sex with emotional bonding/relationships, or an abundance of masturbation. It seems like you've tried to find relevant citations but couldn't have just gone with the next...Well, I can't say "best" thing but next thing you think is relevant.
So I'll ask again. Citation needed.
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I mean, the discussion was about people who are depressed or isolated and using masturbation as a substitute for human contact or people whose masturbation was causing problems in life. For the third time now, masturbation is fine and CAN be preferred at times. I already said that. 3 times. But if it's causing problems or causing someone to remain isolated and not have relationships then it is a health issue. Denying the desire for physical contact is a common reaction from people who are depressed, have social anxiety, etc. Usually causes more isolation and worse depression. As shown.
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No, the subject was about people prefering sex toys over the real thing. You also assume that people need to be in a relationship to have physical contact.