I think this kind of response is normal, but you're missing a step people need to take when dealing with people who have those kinds of 'issues'. Just because a person's motivation for doing those horrible things is a legitimate mental problem doesn't make them any less hurtful, disturbing, or annoying - they DEFINITELY are - you just need to recognize that because of those issues, the acts themselves are probably unintentional.
From what I see here, I think you need some kind of counselling to work through these issues. Your brother shouldn't be doing those things - but you need to realize that he probably doesn't mean to or doesn't understand. You both need to work a little to get to where you want to be.
That said, nobody is perfect... It's not your fault or his, it's complicated.
Is it normal to openly hate my retarded brother?
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I think this kind of response is normal, but you're missing a step people need to take when dealing with people who have those kinds of 'issues'. Just because a person's motivation for doing those horrible things is a legitimate mental problem doesn't make them any less hurtful, disturbing, or annoying - they DEFINITELY are - you just need to recognize that because of those issues, the acts themselves are probably unintentional.
From what I see here, I think you need some kind of counselling to work through these issues. Your brother shouldn't be doing those things - but you need to realize that he probably doesn't mean to or doesn't understand. You both need to work a little to get to where you want to be.
That said, nobody is perfect... It's not your fault or his, it's complicated.