Is it normal to only have orgasms in dreams?

Im 45 and have yet to reach my sexual peek. I think I have had an orgasm through actual sex only twice in my life. It seems I can only achieve an orgasm is when Im dreaming. I mean I think I know what it is like to be a guy because I am sooo horny in my dreams. I orgasm all the time in my dreams but never in real life. This sucks, I wish I was a guy sometimes.

Is It Normal?
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  • I've read that there are some kind of women who have difficulties to reach orgasm... this can be for a lot of reasons, I've read for instance, that some women have their clit too far away from their vaginal entrance. For these women men have to do everything very slowly and patiently. Obviously you can achieve orgasm, but you probably take too long to reach it, so most of men can't lust so much... Have you tried masturbating with toys and things like that?

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    • Ill have to heck with a mirror. I think it is somewhat mental but I do see what you are saying.

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  • I had one gf that came everytime. She always wanted sex and told me woman who don't like sex have never had an orgasm.

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    • I wish I was her....she could be a faker though

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      • totally true. she definitely loved to have sex anytime she could get it.

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