Is it normal to only have clitoral orgasms?

Well...you could try and teach him how to please you. If he's not an insecure jackass, he may go along with your request.

It's normal.

Yes. Only about 25 percent of women can have an orgasm through sex via the g-spot. It would be higher but most men suck at sex. So....you are scewed. Lol

Let him play with your clit before you guys have sex. That way you can orgasm during sex with him!

While doing sex ask him to keep his penis head on your clit and don't insert. By this way it will be alonger sex time for both of you. If he feels to get release he should remove it from there and put it back there after some breathing. By this way you will come first. When you feel you get orgasm, he masy insert it inside and he will also come same time and your g-spot will also be touced by his penis. By this way both of you will be satisfied. It is a tested solution. As per study majority of females get clit orgasm then inserting penis. Hope it will help.

(I am author) so does this mean I will never have simultaneous orgasm with my lover? The only way would be with sex toys? The thought is actually devastating!!!

Normal. sadly normal for most of us.

I'm not normal. I've had an orgasm from guys massaging my boobs, stroking my legs and just sneezing.

Just lucky I guess.

Yes, it's normal, I'm afraid, mostly for the reasons chaosdragoon says.
You could always get him to wear a cock ring with a clit stimulator, which may help.

Rotfl chaosdragon... :)

Yes. It's called being a normal woman.