It could be that you have a helper fixation. It could also be that people who are messed up often tend to be messed up in intriguing ways. Let's face it -- someone who's entirely normal in every way is quite possibly a little dull. Someone with issues could add interest to your otherwise rather sedate lifestyle.
While I don't think you're abnormal, I also think you might want to think a little more deeply about what draws you to people with problems. Maybe it isn't the problems but the other characteristics that go along with them that make a person interesting to you, and by knowing that, you can look for those traits in more stable people.
is it normal to only be attracted to people that have issues?
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It could be that you have a helper fixation. It could also be that people who are messed up often tend to be messed up in intriguing ways. Let's face it -- someone who's entirely normal in every way is quite possibly a little dull. Someone with issues could add interest to your otherwise rather sedate lifestyle.
While I don't think you're abnormal, I also think you might want to think a little more deeply about what draws you to people with problems. Maybe it isn't the problems but the other characteristics that go along with them that make a person interesting to you, and by knowing that, you can look for those traits in more stable people.
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helpers are so rare nowadays. if she can help someone's issues you shouldnt stop her or discourage it.
You are very wise and this makes a lot of sense. Thank you for your comment :)