Is it normal to not want your crush to have friends

It's a perfectly normal reaction X3
If I had a nickel for everytime that happened to me, I'd have... a nickel >^<

You are experiencing jealousy because there is an underlying fear you may lose him to one of the other girls. This is perfectly normal. But keep in mind that what you see in facebook may be a bit of an illusion; you may be reading more into it than there really is. Instead, observe how he interacts with his new friends "in real life."

As for whether you want him to be unhappy or happy, I'd say that's irrelevant. He'll be whatever he wants to be, regardless of what you think or feel.

First of all, cocky isn't an obscenity, so you don't need the *. Secondly, yeah, looks like your friend got all caught up in the douchery of being a male. I would run for the hills and abort this mission PROMPTLY, before you get hurt.

Peace.

You're not unhappy that he has friends. You're unhappy that his friends are all girls and that they all think he's cute. You should just ask him out before one of those girls do. Tell him how you feel quickly before its too late.

that's crazy and unhealthy you should want your crush to be happy so why take their frineds away. you crazy bitch

Jealousy is a normal expression of your desire to have him all to your self. It's fine as long as you don't allow it to change the way you behave towards him.

If you try and be controlling, start asking endless questions, try and sabotage his friendships or stop him from hanging out with people that's a pretty quick way to destroy what you have. If you can keep it in perspective then it should all be good.

I feel ya. This one guy I like a lot has a lot of friends, and I'm happy when he's happy. But when I see pictures of him with other girls it makes me jealous.
soo I'd say it's a normal reaction.

Be happy for him. Jealousy is pointless.

I feel for ya man. I see your predicament but at the same time I would just go ahead and tell the girl because they will fall for the bad guy if a good one doesn't make a move. They are just as desperate as us sometimes. And why cant her 20's be the best part of her life with YOU?

i think thats normal. i also think you you should tell him how you feel to see if he will take the relationship futher so you can have a say in who he hangs out with. lol. or if you dont like that suggestion, ask him to include you in his social hangouts, that way you will feel special again being in the pics....