@: Short4Words
I would ask her if I didn't know. Despite everything. I love my mom with all of my heart; I want to see her happy. My father makes her happy. As unfair as this is, everybody (me, my siblings, my father's wife, the children of my father's wife (cos we know each other and we actually communicate, they're cool)) knows that they cannot function well without each other (my mom and father). Understanding of how impossible it is to expect my father to leave his wife and marry my mom is too present. I am left here with the confusion of what it is that I'm complaining about cos we cannot judge people based on the irreversable things they have done in their past. It would also be unfair to my father's wife, cos she fell in love with my father before my mom got to meet him. We cannot choose who we fall in love with or our soul-mates (my mom and father). I just don't know how to make everything okay and that drives me up the wall ( ._.)
Is it normal to not want to talk with your natural father?
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@: Short4Words
I would ask her if I didn't know. Despite everything. I love my mom with all of my heart; I want to see her happy. My father makes her happy. As unfair as this is, everybody (me, my siblings, my father's wife, the children of my father's wife (cos we know each other and we actually communicate, they're cool)) knows that they cannot function well without each other (my mom and father). Understanding of how impossible it is to expect my father to leave his wife and marry my mom is too present. I am left here with the confusion of what it is that I'm complaining about cos we cannot judge people based on the irreversable things they have done in their past. It would also be unfair to my father's wife, cos she fell in love with my father before my mom got to meet him. We cannot choose who we fall in love with or our soul-mates (my mom and father). I just don't know how to make everything okay and that drives me up the wall ( ._.)