The life that you described pretty much sums up the life of the children of the Mistress, and your mother is your father's Mistress by the very definition of the word.
You're your father's child, but you aren't your father's family, and that has got to be a painful feeling.
I understand what you mean when you say you lack closure. My own Father left us and he disassociated with me, or at least, we don't talk and haven't for a year (before that we talked maybe once every few months, and briefly). He has been out of my life for over 6 years now and he has a new family, new wife, and her kids.
Sometimes, I too wish I had the same closure that children with deceased fathers have. I don't wish death on my Father but it's unsettling to know that he is out there enjoying his life and I'm not a part of it and that probably doesn't even bother him.
Your Mom is selfish. I'm sorry to say this, but she let it happen knowing that she probably wouldn't be able to have the normal family that she would have had had she waited for a SINGLE man to come along. Children are always the ones to suffer when selfish adults make selfish decisions and I am sorry that it has to be that way but I understand completely.
Is it normal to not want to talk with your natural father?
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The life that you described pretty much sums up the life of the children of the Mistress, and your mother is your father's Mistress by the very definition of the word.
You're your father's child, but you aren't your father's family, and that has got to be a painful feeling.
I understand what you mean when you say you lack closure. My own Father left us and he disassociated with me, or at least, we don't talk and haven't for a year (before that we talked maybe once every few months, and briefly). He has been out of my life for over 6 years now and he has a new family, new wife, and her kids.
Sometimes, I too wish I had the same closure that children with deceased fathers have. I don't wish death on my Father but it's unsettling to know that he is out there enjoying his life and I'm not a part of it and that probably doesn't even bother him.
Your Mom is selfish. I'm sorry to say this, but she let it happen knowing that she probably wouldn't be able to have the normal family that she would have had had she waited for a SINGLE man to come along. Children are always the ones to suffer when selfish adults make selfish decisions and I am sorry that it has to be that way but I understand completely.
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Truer than gospel.