Your mother is probably the one who wants to talk it out, since you're directly affected by the deaths like how she is, she may think you'll understand more than her friends. However, because you don't want to talk about may have made her feel rejected, which is why she got unreasonably upset.
In your own words tell her this, "Mom, I am upset about deaths of everyone we love, I truly am. I'm just not ready to talk about them yet. Someday I will ask about everyone, just give me time."
Is it normal to not want to talk about death/loss in detail?
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It's normal.
Your mother is probably the one who wants to talk it out, since you're directly affected by the deaths like how she is, she may think you'll understand more than her friends. However, because you don't want to talk about may have made her feel rejected, which is why she got unreasonably upset.
In your own words tell her this, "Mom, I am upset about deaths of everyone we love, I truly am. I'm just not ready to talk about them yet. Someday I will ask about everyone, just give me time."