Is it normal to not want to suck his dick?

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I'm 18 and I'm a girl.. me and my boyfriend were having "phone sex" and turning each other on so badly.. At one point he said he wanted me to suck his dick, and that completely turned me off. The thought of doing that turned me off and I didn't want to talk anymore. I'd love to play with it, but not suck it. The thought of that just makes me sick. I keep my mouth very clean and I don't like putting weird things in my mouth.. so the thought of that is disgusting to me.
I hear a lot of girls really enjoy it.. so is it normal that I don't?

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GothamCityDiva

12 years ago

It is normal. But it is also normal for him to leave you for someone who will. Because whatever you don't do, there is always someone else who will.

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dom180

12 years ago

The replies to this question are why IIN really sucks now.

OP, it's totally normal, especially if you have no experience with actual, non-phone sex. You say that you've never even seen a dick before; maybe the reason you can't imagine you ever doing it is because you've never even see a dick in real life before. Be gradual not sudden, and maybe you'll feel more comfortable giving it a try. If your bf isn't THAT bothered then it's no problem, but maybe you'll warm to the idea later on.

That's all I can offer. Don't listen to trolls ;)

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  12 years ago
  
  THANK YOU!!!! You are the ONLY person here who actually has a brain and knows how to use it!! Seriously! Thank you =)
  
  I think maybe down the road when we do actually have sex, I MIGHT warm up to it.. but I don't feel it's necessary to have to do it..
  
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  - underager
    
    12 years ago
    
    Well you've got a mouth and you certainly don't know how to use THAT.
    According to your boyfriend, lolololololol!!!!
    
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  - IrishPotato
    
    12 years ago
    
    I agree with Dom.
    Frankly, there isn't anything else to add to his comment. ^^
    
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- cutiebaby
  
  12 years ago
  
  Don't you see that YOU'RE the one being trolled here by the OP?
  
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- cutiebaby
  
  12 years ago
  
  Jeez don't say IIN sucks or she'll be freaked out about that too. She's got kind of a phobia going on, know what I mean??
  
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underager

12 years ago

So long as you don't expect him to put his mouth near your filthy fishy hole!!!!!

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oliveyou

12 years ago

It's your body & your choice but you shouldn't expect him to go down on you if you aren't willing to do the same. There are ways to get him off other than blowjobs but I think you should at least be willing to try.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  12 years ago
  
  I don't want him to do it to me =P that's disgusting...
  
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  - HotSemen
    
    8 years ago
    
    If you try your cunt be eaten you will change your mind...
    
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lc1988

12 years ago

Mouth and Clean do not belong in the same sentence. There's over 500 different species of bacteria in your mouth right now using your mouth as a restaurant. Four hours after a dentist visit, they're back again. So, maybe he should be saying the same thing about not wanting his dick in your dirty mouth but he's willing to take the risk. It's nice. You should try it sometime.

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cutiebaby

12 years ago

Men love cool, free-spirited girls who don't think parts of their bodies or his are disgusting........ get ready to be dropped off at Dumpsville!

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pandabear1209

12 years ago

I think its normal, if you don't wanna do it no biggie, its not for everyone. Its the same if a guy doesn't want to eat a girl out *shrugs* I see no problem, if your guy is a good guy he won't mind.

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berrycherry

11 years ago

shut up niggas, you dont have to if you dont want to. If your boyfriend really loves you he will not pressure you to do anything you dont want to. If he's smart he will not leave the girl of he's dreams for the hoe of the night. Most guys now in days are just dirty pigs.

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sokrazy

12 years ago

I think sucking dick sounds like fun!

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ThatsWhatWeDeerD0

12 years ago

I've decided to give it a try and I have to say I LOVE SUCKING DICK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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- ThatsWhatWeDeerDo
  
  12 years ago
  
  Hey asshole! Get your head out of your ass, k?
  
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  - honeypuss
    
    12 years ago
    
    Got to love those Christian girls, they're so classy!
    
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Welshy

12 years ago

I tell my gf that I don't mind that she don't like doing it either but it pisses me off really. Boring cow. So I just go 2 another girl that will. Then I don't mind my gf doing it then. :-/

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underager

12 years ago

She won't go down on him.
She won't let him go down on her.
She won't watch porn.

Christ, there's dogs on this site having more sex than her boyfriend, LOLZ!!!!

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TerryVie

12 years ago

You know, he should also keep his dick "very clean".
And it shouldn't be a "weird thing" to you.
You are putting it into other openings of your body, too.
It's like, why does it have to be different from sucking on his finger?
In all honesty, i find inexperienced french kissing a lot more "weird stuff in my mouth" than a dick.

If you just have a problem with the male reproductive organ itself you could as well try with a condom on, or even a flavored one.

It's one thing to not really love giving out a blowjob because it can mean you're not getting fucked, but considering it disgusting means either your friend has a hygiene problem or you have some issues with the male parts. Either way i don't find it to be normal, based on your reasoning.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  12 years ago
  
  I meant "clean" in general. Nothing dirty or gross... because I absolutely can't stand that XP
  
  Well, seeing as I've never actually seen a dick.. yeah.. I might have a bit of a problem..
  
  Either way, I highly doubt I'm ever gonna do it because I just find it really weird and disgusting.. so yeah.
  
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Welshy

12 years ago

He probably Was having his dick sucked by a different girl when he was on the phone 2.... :-0

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sleepingbeauty

12 years ago

I think it is ridiculous to omit such a normal part of sexual activity until you have tried it. That's like saying you won't kiss someone because you might catch something.

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- berrycherry
  
  11 years ago
  
  you cant catch really catch something from kissing. You can from sucking dick, especially oral cancer.
  
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  - Allunna95
    
    7 years ago
    
    Ummm.. Wtf... Have u never heard of. Mono... -_-
    
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  - sleepingbeauty
    
    11 years ago
    
    Actually you can catch more from kissing than you can from oral sex: colds, infections, thrush and other viral and bacterial infections. Just about anything can give you cancer according to scientists, from smoking to eating soft cheese. Obviously I would hope the person is clear of STD's, but otherwise what's the problem?
    
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assh0le

12 years ago

Your boyf will be on here b4 long asking if he should get a new girlfriend - one who is happy to get her mouth round his love truncheon :)

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  12 years ago
  
  Uno, he doesn't get on the computer.
  Dos, he doesn't care that I don't want to do it.
  And tres, the only reason he WOULD get on here is to tell you guys to fuck off! He hates you all... just fyi
  
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  - assh0le
    
    12 years ago
    
    LOLZ!
    Well if you don't want to and he doesn't care - CASE CLOSED!!!!
    
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  - [Old Memory]
    
    12 years ago
    
    He sounds like he is a giant pussy in not making you do it. You need to learn that part of your role is getting down on your knees whenever he requires it.
    
    Study up on porn films to get the technique just right.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      12 years ago
      
      Um.. he can't "make" me do it. That's bein an ass when you make someone do something against their will.
      
      And I don't watch porn. It's disgusting
      
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      - assh0le
        
        12 years ago
        
        Frigid little bitch. What guy is going to stay with you?? hahahaha
        
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      - [Old Memory]
        
        12 years ago
        
        If he is a man, or even just a boy and you are a woman, or just a girl (its the same thing)
        
        Its pretty much his obligation to make sure you understand what your role is. Which includes fellatio. In addition to cooking, cleaning and laundry.
        
        Remember, I am trying to help YOU out here.
        
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        Failedcasanova
        
        12 years ago
        
        Fuck off dj. You have no right to tell her what her role or place is. Would you appricciate it I'd I told you that due to some of your medical conditions that I considered you unfit to do anything more than be a complacent little bitch ? No you would rant and rage because I imposed my own personal beliefs on you and stifled your rights.
        
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  - Rusty-Rider
    
    7 years ago
    
    We don't like you and your boyfriend very much either.
    Go play in the traffic.
    
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  - vain
    
    11 years ago
    
    He tells you he doesn't care. He might be getting it elsewhere.
    
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Welshy

12 years ago

My girlfriend is the same so I just cheated on her with someone that does. LOl

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- c00lio
  
  12 years ago
  
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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  12 years ago
  
  Well then you're a dick..
  
  My boyfriend wouldn't do that. All his past girlfriends cheated on him and he would never do that. It hurt him too much..
  
  HE DOESN'T CARE THAT I DON'T WANT TO DO IT!!!!
  
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  - [Old Memory]
    
    12 years ago
    
    I agree he is most definitely finding someone else to slurp down that meat stick of his and stringing you along at the same time.
    
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  - Rusty-Rider
    
    7 years ago
    
    YES HE DOES! and he is going to dump your sorry ass unless you get with the program.
    
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  - assh0le
    
    12 years ago
    
    Course he doesn't care that you don't. Cos someone else it doing it for you.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      12 years ago
      
      He's not cheating on me
      
      I KNOW HIM! YOU DONT! SHUT THE FUCK UP!!
      
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      - [Old Memory]
        
        12 years ago
        
        Keep your friends away from him. After all if they are willing to do what you arent, well then, I mean why not go for one of them.
        
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        berrycherry
        
        11 years ago
        
        yess some suppose friends can be dirty backstabbing hoes.
        
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      - assh0le
        
        12 years ago
        
        LOLZ!
        Touched a nerve there. That's why you came here. If you were confident in what you were doing (or not doing in your case LOLZ) you wouldn't have posted what you did :)
        
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- Q-Dawg
  
  9 years ago
  
  Lmao of shit u just killed me. But u have a good point if u won't suck ur man's dick ik a nasty bitch that will and like it
  
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manii92

11 years ago

Omg be nice.. She's obviously a virgin.. And you shouldn't be having "phone sex" if sex is so disgusting.. Your not ready slow down

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  11 years ago
  
  Ehh.. Too bad.. Already had sex AND sucked his dick ;D both were AWESOME!!
  
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assh0le

12 years ago

Doncha just love it when girls announce their boyfs would never cheat on them....lolz.....makes it so much funnier when the inevitable happens LOLZ

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- Q-Dawg
  
  9 years ago
  
  Yes that is the funniest shit in life XD. Aw shit I can't breathe
  
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assh0le

12 years ago

How the fuck do you suck someone's dick OVER THE PHONE?????!!!!!

Would love to see that LOLZ

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  12 years ago
  
  Wow.... really?
  
  No, he was just saying what he wanted me to do at some point.
  
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  - assh0le
    
    12 years ago
    
    Just keep your sex life on the phone and you won't have to.
    
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BrendioEEE

11 years ago

Well mouths were made for eating & breathing I don't think evolution,god or watever you believe in had the intent for mouths to be used to suck on a fucking organ.

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ballparkdogg

12 years ago

there's other things to do beside oral and if you don't like then tell him. If he tries to pressure you then I would really think about your future with him. Most women don't like to suck cock.

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- c00lio
  
  12 years ago
  
  True that, but that's what makes the ones that do so special ;)
  
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crunchtime623

12 years ago

Suck his dick... he probably deserves it.

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