She made your life difficult and in truth you will probably always have to deal with the coping mechanisms and issues you developed to deal with the problem when young. This will always affect you and it's normal to feel uncomfortable when the possibilty arises that you might have to put yourself back in that situation even under special circumtances.
I would suggest going if only to get some form of closure from the whole thing and maybe get some things off your chest. It's amazing what changes faceing the end of ones life brings about in people. She may have a different way of dealing with things or seeing things and even if she doesn't, you should have the opportunity to face what you both went through and try to resolve some of the emotions you may both feel before it's too late.
Is it normal to not want to see a dying parent?
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She made your life difficult and in truth you will probably always have to deal with the coping mechanisms and issues you developed to deal with the problem when young. This will always affect you and it's normal to feel uncomfortable when the possibilty arises that you might have to put yourself back in that situation even under special circumtances.
I would suggest going if only to get some form of closure from the whole thing and maybe get some things off your chest. It's amazing what changes faceing the end of ones life brings about in people. She may have a different way of dealing with things or seeing things and even if she doesn't, you should have the opportunity to face what you both went through and try to resolve some of the emotions you may both feel before it's too late.